How soon is too soon to go back
keyfitter11
I was out Monday night and had a couple table dances and a one song private dance all with the same girl but time and money had run out so I left... I asked her what her shift was but how soon is too soon to go back for more. How often did you back to see a favorite after the first time?
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last commentAs soon as you want. She'll gladly take your money whenever you show up.
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There is no set time limit on when to go back. Some people return the next day, others stay away for weeks. Just be careful that you don't let her think that she's now your entire world. She'll no doubt try to take you for all you got.
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From the way you put things you may be new to strip -clubbing.
The first and most important thing newbs need to realize is that IT'S BUSINESS - there's is only one reason she is there, to make as much $$$ as she can and it is f'ing amazing the lengths many of these girls will go to get their$ - what you need to absolutely see when you see a stripper is def not a potential love interest but a salesperson, basically treat it like you were dealing w/ a car salesman who's only objective is to butter you up by any means possible to make the sale.
Your question is similar to really liking a restaurant but wondering if you should visit again soon.
If you think you have "something special" w/ this girl then you are in for a rude and perhaps expensive awakening.
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As long as you're not using your rent or food money to give to a stripper, it's never too soon to go back.
Seriously though if you are really smitten with a dancer and are afraid you can't control yourself when it comes to her and your wallet, I'd give it at least a week.
Pro tip - only bring in the amount of money you're not going to be upset parting with inside the club. I do the same exact thing when I go into a casino.
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Much appreciated reply and yes, although I am pretty new I fully understand what your saying and the goal of the girls. It's wasn't my first visit there but it was the first time I had multiple dances from the same girl. She was beautiful and we had a nice chat but I'm not looking for or expecting anything. I'm not out for anything but a little fun and she seemed like the one I could have some fun with strictly in the club on a business level. :-)
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She's already forgotten you. Ask again 6 months from now.
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So why were you wondering when you should visit again? Is it b/c you don't want her to think your desperate or smitten w/ her or wondering if there's some kind of rule-of-thumb?
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True, I'm sure she has but it's a lot easier for a PL to remember one face than a stripper to remember all of the faces.
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I'm learning the only rules are the ones you make or negotiate on.
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They will usually blow your dick if you come back the next day
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Strippers are happy when a customer comes back to see them again. Regulars are the key to stripper income.
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I may be reading into your post. Are you asking because you are pursuing a BF/GF relationship? If so, don't, it's all about the $ to her.
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Posted too soon. I just read the other responses. Any time is okay, just keep perspective and control.
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You should return between 42 and 51 hours after you left the first time. 46-47 hours is ideal.
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if she is there.... NOW!
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Proper protocol is to go see her 48-hours later and bring a bouquet of flowers
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Serenading her in the club is also a nice touch
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