How soon is too soon to go back

17 comments

• ClearHeelsHotAssCantLose

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  8 years ago

  As soon as you want. She'll gladly take your money whenever you show up.
• lopaw

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  8 years ago

  There is no set time limit on when to go back. Some people return the next day, others stay away for weeks. Just be careful that you don't let her think that she's now your entire world. She'll no doubt try to take you for all you got.
• Papi_Chulo

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  8 years ago

  From the way you put things you may be new to strip -clubbing.
  
  The first and most important thing newbs need to realize is that IT'S BUSINESS - there's is only one reason she is there, to make as much $$$ as she can and it is f'ing amazing the lengths many of these girls will go to get their$ - what you need to *absolutely* see when you see a stripper is def not a potential love interest but a salesperson, basically treat it like you were dealing w/ a car salesman who's only objective is to butter you up by any means possible to make the sale.
  
  Your question is similar to really liking a restaurant but wondering if you should visit again soon.
  
  If you think you have "something special" w/ this girl then you are in for a rude and perhaps expensive awakening.
• shailynn

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  8 years ago

  As long as you're not using your rent or food money to give to a stripper, it's never too soon to go back.
  
  Seriously though if you are really smitten with a dancer and are afraid you can't control yourself when it comes to her and your wallet, I'd give it at least a week.
  
  Pro tip - only bring in the amount of money you're not going to be upset parting with inside the club. I do the same exact thing when I go into a casino.
• keyfitter11

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  8 years ago

  Much appreciated reply and yes, although I am pretty new I fully understand what your saying and the goal of the girls. It's wasn't my first visit there but it was the first time I had multiple dances from the same girl. She was beautiful and we had a nice chat but I'm not looking for or expecting anything. I'm not out for anything but a little fun and she seemed like the one I could have some fun with strictly in the club on a business level. :-)
• rockstar666

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  8 years ago

  She's already forgotten you. Ask again 6 months from now.
• Papi_Chulo

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  8 years ago

  So why were you wondering when you should visit again? Is it b/c you don't want her to think your desperate or smitten w/ her or wondering if there's some kind of rule-of-thumb?
• keyfitter11

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  8 years ago

  True, I'm sure she has but it's a lot easier for a PL to remember one face than a stripper to remember all of the faces.
• keyfitter11

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  8 years ago

  I'm learning the only rules are the ones you make or negotiate on.
• grand1511

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  8 years ago

  They will usually blow your dick if you come back the next day
• jackslash

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  8 years ago

  Strippers are happy when a customer comes back to see them again. Regulars are the key to stripper income.
  
• flagooner

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  8 years ago

  I may be reading into your post. Are you asking because you are pursuing a BF/GF relationship? If so, don't, it's all about the $ to her.
• flagooner

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  8 years ago

  Posted too soon. I just read the other responses. Any time is okay, just keep perspective and control.
• JohnSmith69

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  8 years ago

  You should return between 42 and 51 hours after you left the first time. 46-47 hours is ideal.
• Jascoi

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  8 years ago

  if she is there.... NOW!
• Papi_Chulo

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  8 years ago

  Proper protocol is to go see her 48-hours later and bring a bouquet of flowers
• Papi_Chulo

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  8 years ago

  Serenading her in the club is also a nice touch