Another way to ask this question is: what's the biggest/best motivation for a woman to sexually satisfy a man in creative ways that fulfill his fantasies: love or money?
Until recently, based upon my DS experiences, I would have said money is the best motivator for a woman to provide complete sexual satisfaction. But now I'm convinced that love is actually a much better motivator. Very surprising.
If you were comparing the average stripper to the average civilian, it's a stripper by far (otherwise why would all of if be paying for extras?) But you're not talking about the average stripper/escort and the average civi. You're talking about a DS and DC, so they are basically equivalents of each other. In this scenario I think it would be equal.
The DS is gonna wanna as good of a job as she can possibly be to ensure she keeps you as a customer and ensure she has a steady income. And the DC is gonna wanna please you in every way possible because she loves you and is truly attracted to you.
I think we can all agree though that the average stripper gives far better BJs and FS than an average civilian. Every time I've gotten a BJ from a civi it's just basic sucking, they don't lick my shaft, look at me in the eye the way a pornstar looks at the camera, etc.
I dunno. Usually the BJs stop once they get the ring. :)
Various g/f's I've had were generally better than P4P....but not always.
In my experience a DS because they have sucked way more many dicks than a DC.
Think about it, it's possible a DC has sucked less than 10 dicks in her entire life and a DS could have sucked 10 in one day.
All things being equal (meaning they both know what they're doing): IMO those that give good BJs it's often b/c they enjoy doing it and one would think a chick that loves you would enjoy doing it more
First, the one who enjoys sucking cock the most should be better at it.
Second, John, the only way any of us are going to be able to definitely answer your question is for you to set it up for both the DS and the DC to demonstrate their oral talents on those of us who took the time and effort to respond to your post. I mean, what the hell, why not.
Love, for sure. Hidden contempt is the worst enemy of sexual satisfaction...
Do men really feel like most women dislike giving bj' s that much? I don't get it.
I think Papi nailed it. There's nothing better than a woman that actually loves giving head. It's obvious when they love it versus just going through the motions to finish you off. When they love it, they devour it and get super turned on and horny. Even though they continue to enjoy it, I love stopping them and fucking them before I finish, because they want it so bad by then. Muy bueno.
I think with just the naturalness of sex and the DFKing, it would be the dream civvie who is best. She will be completely ready to lose herself in it. But when it comes to BJing, I would suspect the dream stripper is best.
SJG
In my experience the only thing strippers have going for them is youth and looks. Best bj and sex comes from swinging. In all fairness though my wife was top 80% lifetime for 23 years and for the last seven is now top 3 lifetime. Amazes me that after 23 years the bj frequency quintupled and the skill jumped her over many, many others. Sunday's bbbjcim places that dancer in the top 3 as well.
In my experience the best blow job I ever had was from a stripper I took the time to get to know. I treated her with respect and love and in return she would give me some of the best sex of my life
Love+Respect+Time+Cash+Stripper= best sex of your life
My ATF was alleged to be shy in high school. She discovered her popularity rose markedly if she sucked dick. By her sophomore year her nickname was BJ. Since then she has taken pride in giving great head. She'll work on her skills and when finished look you in the eye and sincerely ask, "Was that the best blowjob you ever had?" Motivation to be the best trumps all. She recently sent me a video of her blowing a guy and he couldn't keep it up since the two of them were totally stoned on heroin. But she demonstrated her full repertoire of skills and they are substantial. Others frequently question my predilection for watching her with another guy. I'm a voyeur as well as a horn dog PL. don't get your panties twisted cuz I'm perverted. You know, 3 consenting adults and all that shit...
In my experience Papi is right. If the woman loves you, and is sexually adventurous, then she will perform much better than a sex worker. Yes you may have to give a DC some suggestions on technique that a stripper might not need, but in the long run love is a bigger motivation than money.
My wife is the best. Enthusiastic and a completer. She will do it almost anywhere just for the fun of it and is always willing. The P4P is just for the variety but it rarely is as good.
@bevino
Sounds good. Can I be next?
How we feel about them colours the experience as well. My ATF is not the absolute best I've ever had at giving head, but she's pretty good, and clearly enjoys what it does for me, and that makes a hell of a difference.
A lot of it is psychological. It's not only about technique (which helps) but I'd say the DC who's probably more experienced too.
more money doesn't mean a better bj. sharing 'chemistry' is not a guarantee either. but it does provide a better chance of better service.
Love will always trump all IMO, $$$ is just a substitute