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i've always wondered...do SC dancers recall or acknowledge QUICKIE bareback sex?

gothamyte

from that Adam Westsiiiide of Gotham

has anyone on here ever asked a dancer directly if she remembers? i've been meaning to ask...just to know..

lemme know if y'all have a similar story:

so there's this dancer i've known at least a decade. (i haven't seen her recently--probably last saw her somewhere in 2015 by chance. in recent years, she hasn't danced as much i believe due to health issues unrelated to SCs and/or maturity.) i met her at a high mileage club back in the day. she gives good lapdances. i'm not a VIP guy. but i've been in VIP with her back in our early days once or twice. i distinctly remember once having condom-missionary-sex with her in VIP because as i remember it, she initiated the whole thing. and i remember always looking at her differently afterwards--even though that's a high mileage club and she worked there, i felt that was out of character for her/our SC relationship at that time for her to go that route. i guess before that i always looked at her as a "clean-nosed dancer." you know? even though she worked at a grimey high mileage club. like i don't especially think of her or remember her as being a VIP staple at that SC. otherwise, i routinely thoroughly enjoyed getting lapdances with her on the main floor, no problem.

so, i also distinctly remember one night, getting lapdances with her on the main floor and without a word to me, with her back to me, she slipped her thong to the side and you know, my dick was already out, and she rode me bareback for like 1/4 of a song and then put her thong back in place like nothing happened. she never said a word to me and i was surprised at how good it was even though it was a 1/4 of a song--i remember our condom missionary hook up was kinda awkward--had it's moments but overall awkward.

so since then, i've always wondered: do dancers recall those random quickie moments? i don't have her number at the moment, but we did have a rapport--if i ever asked her face to face if she remembered that time we barebacked for 1/4 song, would she admit yes or lie and say no, or honestly would she not remember? i don't really care, i just always wondered the answer. especially when it's a dancer you're acquainted with for a decade but ya'll have your limits/boundaries. do the dancers remember when yall both overstepped that line?

keep in mind i've known this dancer for a decade. like 98% of our lapdances were just that--lapdances. it's just that 1 time in VIP with a condom and then that other random time on the main floor where i didn't ask. that was pretty risky for her to do, for both of us to engage that way--she works at a high-mileage club. i didn't go to that club as often as i would've liked to.

ON THE FLIP SIDE, we all have dancers who come to us and act like they've met us or know us from before and we don't remember.

because we didn't frequent the VIP and I'm not a VIP guy, if i came up to her and said remember the time we barebacked wouldn't her knee-jerk reaction be, i thought you never did VIP?

i just always wondered...apologize for the length of this