Would you consider me still new to the club scene?
jojojo897
California
I still think I am since I only visit one club. Even more so that I determined my current favorite only having taking her to VIP three times in a span of four to five months through eight visits. Out of all the ladies I've taken, my experience with her has been the most enjoyable.
What do you think separates the new guys and the veteran club goers?
What do you think separates the new guys and the veteran club goers?
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It would take at least 5 years and probably more than 100 visits for me to consider someone a true veteran of the hobby.
There are guys here that have been in the hobby 4 or 5 decades and have clubbed at more than 100 clubs.
The nice thing about the discussions TUSCL is being able to benefit from others not getting what they wanted so you can see stuff coming before it gets out of control.
The more I have been clubbing, the shorter it takes me to consider a dancer a CF. Ie., I have a better idea of what else is available and what I am currently looking for. When I went to a club for the first time, the idea that there was a girl sitting next to me who was available on some level was incredibly intoxicating. Years later, I have a better idea of what I am looking for on a particular visit (looks, rapport, etc) and which dancer will do the best to fulfill that.
I consider a newbie to be someone that still:
1. believes what strippers say.
2. don't realize that everything is all about the money.
3. doesn't realize that making it rain makes you look like a douche.
To me it's more a frame of mind and about how naive someone is, not so much how many times someone has gone SCing.
+ you are the one who is in control and not the dancer - i.e. you dictate what you get for your $$$ and not the dancer - she will either play or not and you have to be content w/ not having her b/c you realize you won't get what you want
+ it's business - they don't really like nor are they into you - and you're fine w/ that
The dividing line between a vet and a noob is whether they can have a LDK
Yes you're still very much a noob. Enjoy rookiehood but don't make any rookie mistakes.
For rcp309pvp, just save up a few bucks and drive over to COI (check reviews, the hottest club constantly changes) to experience a different club. That's the only way you can move from newbe to rookie!
I think you are on your way from amateur to PL as you start checking off these boxes:
- I've done OTCs with a few girls
- I have a few strippers phone numbers
- I've truly internalized how this is a business for the girls -- not because I read it on tuscl, but because I fucked up, got in too deep, and learned the hard way. Once.
- I've experienced high hustle all-flash Las Vegas type clubs, I've experienced extras clubs, I know what kind of club to go to during what kind of shift to get the experience I'd like
- I can tell you which girls at my favorite club do what... and I"ve pushed the club rules with some of them
- I know -- really really know -- at least one stripper... we've gotten close and I got an insider's view of how strippers think
You can go years, and not technically be a "newbie", but still be a rank amateur strip club goer. Start developing insider knowledge, like the above, and congratulations! The Pathetic Loser title can be yours! :)
If you can forget real easy, you can feel excitement as soon as you see a 10 you haven't seen in years., or a 9.5 or better.
One word. Control. Control over themselves and control over what they're here for. Newbs think things happen randomly, veterans understand it doesn't.
To be honest, I don't even think I've gotten that fresh excited feeling when going to the club for the first time. Maybe it has to do to the first club I visited? I pretty much walked in with full confidence knowing what to expect after a few reads here on TUSCL. However, the club I went to rolled a bit differently than what I did read about. Plus dressing up in a clean formal style probably added even more with looking like someone who knew the club game. One thing is for sure...as much as I enjoy my time with my current favorite, I'll continue to take a different ride with any dancer that strikes my interest and develop a better experience with this hobby.
Or maybe I'm just high.
The control thing does make sense. Here's my justification. My CF was asking me about the best LD memory I had. She wanted to recreate it for me. So I told her about this LD I had from the ATF like 20 years ago. She couldn't recreate some of it because apparently the ATF MILF in addition to having breast implants also was a *cyborg* or at least a serious athlete (some of the inverted poses with pussy in the face, etc) but the CF tried as best as she could. It was good but it wasn't the same despite the dance being most the identical. I came to the same conclusion. It was the control. The ATF put me into kind of this "trace" and became this money vacuum. I don't think I could give a dancer that kind of control anymore. I can't afford to.