SC with a Female Friend

Back in the early 70's my wife kept bugging me to take her to one because she was curious as to what really went on. So I took her to a club near LAX. Back in those days it was strictly a stage performance. No lap dances, etc.

She had had enough after just 10 minutes. She was the only female customer. So neither one of us had a good time and she never brought it up again.

My 2 cents.

The whole trip is about her. you have to watch her reaction. The second she's no longer "fine" you need to either adjust the situation ITC so she can get back to enjoying herself, or realize it's heading south, and bag the trip for the night. Things can go south in a hurry with a women who's lost security or confidence, etc.

Personally, I would have bailed the second it was apparent she was not okay with what she was wearing. IMO, this is not surprising. How women feel about herself and about her appearance is part of her self esteem and self confidence. This is not new. It's really not fair to take a (most, many?) women out like that without letting her "get ready" or "get dressed" for the evening.

I also find civvie women don't like to stay out ITC for long. Often 40-60 minutes is enough for most of them. So, IME, don't Wait to find the right girl for dances or VIP. She'll be real into it for the first 1/2 of the visit, then she starts to lose interest. Get your private dances during that second half, but keep an eye on her or keep her close by. Watch her reaction. Once it's clear she's not fine, or she and a catty dancer get into, intervene, then bail.

The 2nd half of my trips, usually involves the civvie and the dancers either eating something from the kitchen, talking, and watching me get dances, or she'll sit by the tip rail with another dancer, with singles, waiting for me to get back.

Basically, unlike some on here, I don't sit with her the entire time, but I do keep an eye on her. Most of the girls I've gone with 'get off on' letting me 'go off' with another dancer to enjoy myself. But each woman is different and unique. So keep an eye on her, communicate, and be mindful of how she's reacting at any given point.

I hope this helps.

The only women I've taken were strippers. I'd like to take the MILF but that remains to be seen.

I went with my wife once on a whim with friends before I really got into the hobby. Just really got drinks and chilled as I tried not disrespect her by getting to into the stage sets and kept making sure she wasn't getting uncomfortable. Awkward experience, would not repeat.

With the right female it can be a blast. With the wrong one it can be a nightmare. The challenge is gaging which way it will go and acting swiftly and accordingly. I think alot of guys miss the early signs of their dates discomfort and stay too long.

Shoot, JS. How do you think you'll find a club where the dancers don't all know you? ;-)

The good news is this chick wants to show you she's fun and sexy, the kind of girl down for a strip club.

In general idea stick to low mileage clubs and stage tipping until you get a better feel if she's actually bi.

I have a civvie "girlfriend" at the moment the that lives in Detroit and she had talked about going to clubs with co-workers before. She's extremely open sexually and I had thought about taking her to a club just to see her reaction, hopefully making her horny. The problem is, there isn't a single nice club in Detroit that doesn't have a stripper working there that I haven't fucked, so that could be a very akward situation when I walk in and strippers run up to me.

Now, although she's an open minded freak, she said she would go to a club if I wanted to, but wasn't on the top of her list. I'd say most other open minded girls share her views.

Chances are no matter how hot a girl you have, there's going to be hotter girls working in the club. Your girl is sitting in the corner with regular clothes on and there's a beautiful girl naked on stage that everyone is glorifying. It'll make your girl feel inferior and no girl likes to feel that way.

Some girls are cool with that, but most aren't.

dawg, I've thought of that. The MILF lives in a city that I havent clubbed in for years. So I should be reasonably safe. I would never take her to a club where I know any dancers.

Well I know she's bi. She's admitted to it and has been with a few girls. Like many have mentioned I did say let's get out of here when I noticed she wasn't feeling it. I myself tried to get into it, but was mainly concerned how she was doing since I know SCing is a hobby of mine.

I'm sure it'll be a repeat if we stay cool with each other but at a better club. This particular club Id been to 2 times already and never enjoyed it or got a lap dance, but like in my original post it was the closest.

I've done it a couple times, mostly the experience was just meh. The best visit was with a friend who was bi. Just watching her enjoy herself was almost worth the visit. The only time I've ever done champagne room at a Platinum Plus was with/for her. The dancer left and we got called down for her giving me a bj in the champagne room. I asked her how good it was (there was oral sex involved) and she said it was just ok.

My wife and I used to go. She enjoyed it, but she hasn't gone for a while now.

My ATF and I have gone a couple times. She loves it.

I have never gone to a club with another girl, but have visited clubs in co-ed groups and it was overall uncomfortable when there were straight women in the group. I think a bi or lesbian wingwoman would be optimum, especially someone who has been to clubs before and understands how they work. Dancers can sense when a woman custie is uncomfortable and will steer clear.