Problems

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Timex345
Illinois
Solving other peoples' problems is so easy because I am not close to the situation and can remain objective.
I can use clear thinking and can remain rational.
I have surrendered the pursuit of a woman who I have liked for some time now.
It took awhile for me to come to this conclusion but now I can move on knowing I did everything I could to make something happen.
Here are several things that finally made my decision easier...
1. She avoided me when she had every chance to stop and chat.
2. We were talking one afternoon and she jumped and raced to answer her phone.
3. I have shown interest in her, but she seemed to ignore me.
4. She seemed bothered by me.
5. She purposely brought her date / boyfriend with her to let me know she has or is seeing someone.
The more I think about it. All of the signs were there for months now.
My self esteem suffered as well from the pursuit of this girl.
Thankfully I can easily avoid her. She lives 3 hours away.
Sometimes we hold the keys to our own prison and don't even know it.
Free at last...

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flagooner
9 years ago
It's hard when you let feelings get involved, and hard to not allow them to develop regardless of how much we know better. Been there, done that. Gradually escaping it now in. fact
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s88
9 years ago
Always have 2 dancers lines up. CF #1 and CF #2. When #1 ends, #2 will keep you happy till your find #3 (really #2 now that #1 left).
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