Best OTC lines
larryfisherman
California
I figured in this thread we could say the best lines when it comes to that, so maybe in the future newbies will come to this thread first before asking.
For me the best line that I've seen suggested here is: "Can we have some fun outside the club, I'll make it worth your time".
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Seems to work slightly better when you've already done something ITC, but not *much* better.
Its all the BS you have to sort through that can be a pain to deal with. Some will give you their number but only want to text you when they are slow to drum up business. Others will give you a number only to try to get you to spend more in the club that night thinking you have a chance but give you a bogus #. Others will give you a number to meet outside of work but for something like stripper parties, where you pay 20 door entry and you can get dances in a private home party environment.
or just ask the one you like and try to get around all the SS.
Another one I really like is, "Can I see you outside the club?" Simple and to the point.
I'm sure to some extent it's a matter of style, but I tend not to need "lines" -- lines are needed by guys proposing OTC to strippers they don't know very well. I tend not to ask for OTC until I've seen her at least 2 or 3 times -- which means I've spent as much as 12 hours with her before I "pop the question", we know each other and things are comfortable and just flow (otherwise, I wouldn't be asking). I personally dislike and advise against impersonal, passive, general type questions (e.g., "do you every do OTC" "do you see customers outside the club") and make it directly personal (e.g., "you are too fun! Let's meet outside the club for some partying and strip clubbing together?").
In the end though, whatever I say tends to just roll naturally based on our conversation, whenever it fits in best. I don't use a "line", I just talk, and typically she's so comfortable with me that there's little tension in the subsequent conversation/negotiation. The one thing I always do is make things personal -- this is a question about ME, will she meet ME outside the club, whether or not she does that with any other customer.
Most of the time they say it's some piece of shit. I reply "well if you need new tires why don't you meet me outside the club."
Another one that usually works is: "I fucking love the Olive Garden, want to go there with me sometime?" Strippers love breadsticks!!!
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Some girls can be gotten to do whatever you want, but not approached like that.
SJG
That's a good point. You know about once or twice a year, Mrs S and I are trying to figure out where to go for dinner and I say "let's go to Olive Garden." Yeah bad idea.
Next night I came home from work late and there was her voice on my old fashioned answering machine.
Keeping the communications civilian is always better.
SJG
And if she does want money, there are ways you can discuss this and give it to her which still do not suggest that she is selling sex.
SJG
One line a female customer used on me that sounded great was something like, "I want to take you back to my apartment and you can do whatever you want to me."
However it sounded too good to be true and I was highly suspicious. I was in a strip club, not a regular bar. I just gulped down a bunch of beer right before last call and I had 6 hours until the club closed. Talk about bad timing. She wanted me to leave right away. I didn't.
Her: "No, why" ?
Me : "Would you like some"?
You are commenting as if you know me and also know the young lady I referred to. You do not know either of us and cannot comment with any degree of accuracy. To do so would be very inaccurate. These girls are not all hardcore strippers as you assume. Most of the girls I hang out with are young 18-26 year old single mothers trying to provide for their families.
If she talks about being from out of town I use the "well, I'm gonna show you around" line.
If she looks friendly I ask her straight forward to hang out after work or if she'd give me her #.
If she happens to talk about food I use the "I can cook for you" line, many girls have liked this one.
If she gives you a wild lap dance I look horny and ask "do you do private parties, like bachelor parties and stuff? " If she says yes, that's it. If she says No, look sad in a cute way and maybe you'll still get her #.
Some younger girls love clubbing, and THEY have asked me to go to a dance club after work, but I'm not into that too much, but is still a good way of getting a girl to meet OTC.
Sometimes I complain about the lack of privacy during a lapdance and tell the girl "I wish we could have these lapdances in a more private place, here there are too many people and I get nervous".
Be creative and polite and I'm sure you won't fail.
Because I don't ever treat them like prostitutes is why at our local no touching clubs they will sometimes talk to me four hours at a time, sometimes even for free.
Now once there were wires that got crossed.
I had talked to a girl on a couple of prior days. This third time she had to go outside to run an errand with another girl. When she came back I asked her about it. It was to go and pay some money for a bride's maid's dress for a wedding she would be soon attending. She said, "I guess in these last days here I didn't make enough money, so I am paying for the dress now."
So I just commented, "Well working here you should be able to get enough money."
I meant very little by this, except that I know that the girls make good money there.
Seems that she took it differently, as though I was suggesting that she do extra services, like prostitution. She was really angry, but she would not face me. She turned me into the management, but she was making it like I was offering her money for doing more. I certainly was not.
Eventually it blew over, as I believe that other girls interceded, and I think she was asked to leave.
But that small statement from me, taken the wrong way, and given that she and I had talked a great deal and that she was assuming I was going to ask her out civilian style, did go negative.
I would have taken her home with me the first night, totally civilian, if I'd not been married. This girl went a long way to indicate that that was what she wanted too.
But for her, that one small statement, which she took as me suggesting she should do outside dates for money, was explosive and hurtful.
I definitely did not mean it that way.
SJG
I think if the younger guys say what's suggested, the dancers will think the young guys want a free ride so to speak. I think that assumption is based on the fact that in general the younger guys are trying to fuck the strippers for free.
If you just be yourself, I don't think you will have any problem. You come across very well here on TUSCL.
SJG
I'm gonna try it tonight, will post full report!