Wearing cologne at the strip club
footballguy
NC
I always try to put at least a little effort into my appearance when I go to the strip club, so I shower, shave, dress at least decent and then I give myself a spray of cologne. I figure the dancers put a ton of effort into looking good so I should at least put on a little effort. Plus I figure that if there's a dancer that I'm competing with another customer for then it increases the chances that she'll approach me first if I have a clean appearance and he doesn't.
I started thinking about wearing the cologne though and whether or not dancers like it when guys where it or prefer it if they don't. I've had many dancers tell me I smell good and ask what kind of cologne I'm wearing but that could easily just be SS.
While I imagine they like smelling the cologne they may not like it when they give me a lap dance since it probably runs off on them a little. I'm sure the last thing they want is to have my cologne rub off on them and then when they approach another customer he would smell the cologne on them. Obviously he knows the dancers dance with lots of different guys but it can still be a turn off to smell another guys cologne on a stripper. So I imagine a lot of strippers probably use wipes to give them self a wipe down after laps dances if a guy is wearing cologne. I'm sure a lot probably do that anyway so it may not matter.
Does anyone have any input on this or heard from dancers on whether or not they like a customer to wear cologne or would they rather him not wear any as long as he doesn't have BO?
I started thinking about wearing the cologne though and whether or not dancers like it when guys where it or prefer it if they don't. I've had many dancers tell me I smell good and ask what kind of cologne I'm wearing but that could easily just be SS.
While I imagine they like smelling the cologne they may not like it when they give me a lap dance since it probably runs off on them a little. I'm sure the last thing they want is to have my cologne rub off on them and then when they approach another customer he would smell the cologne on them. Obviously he knows the dancers dance with lots of different guys but it can still be a turn off to smell another guys cologne on a stripper. So I imagine a lot of strippers probably use wipes to give them self a wipe down after laps dances if a guy is wearing cologne. I'm sure a lot probably do that anyway so it may not matter.
Does anyone have any input on this or heard from dancers on whether or not they like a customer to wear cologne or would they rather him not wear any as long as he doesn't have BO?
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The last time this was brought up I asked the question "Do strippers have to worry about going home smelling like they have been with another man, the same way married men worry about going home smelling like a french whore?" Never did get an answer.
I usually only spray a little on when I go out with Mrs S on the weekend or if I go to a strip club. I don't wear it on a daily basis but I guess people would think I do because my deodorant smells like cologne.
Side note: Bear Glove by Old Spice smells pretty damn good for a deodorant.
I have pretty high confidence in my starting-lineup colognes ... I've been dating actively for years now, and already know what colognes get crazy compliments from civilian women. But the fact is, with strippers, they're going to compliment you no matter whether they like it or not, for obvious reasons. But I almost always end up with the kind of relationship with my ATF that after a while I enlist her to be a cologne critique for me, I'll tell her that she'll actually be doing me a favor if I try out a cologne on her and she tells me it's bad, because it will keep my from making a mistake while dating, and once we're that tight, I tend to get what I think are honest impressions from my ATF (because sometimes they're tepid or negative).
I was surprised years ago, when dancers noticed the scent and claimed they liked it. Their claim was often supported by their face (nose) paying a lot of attention to my neck. I am no longer surprised by the attention, and I certainly do want to do anything to reduce their attentions!
I’m a basic guy and keep it simple – shower; shave; clean clothes; and hair brushed – I’m not big into cologne but a former GF years ago gave me a bottle and I often get compliments on it inside and outside the club – thus I splash on a little when I SC (just enough to that a dancer can smell it if up close to me but not when she walks by
EDT is more concentrated than cologne so you need less, it's heat activated (hence the pulse points) and it lasts longer. So the dancer has to lean in closer to detect it. So the scent is more like a shared secret. It's much less likely to transfer to her that way. Win-win.
However, I shower before I go.