atf fired
neon44
Dumped by ATF?
This will come off as strange but I'd like some opinions.
My atf texted me saying shes been fired. She offered to meet otc for "wrestling" (sort of my fetish). i looked up the hotel and it sounds terrible including bed bugs, etc. I'd like to visit the strip club tomorrow anyway which is near the hotel(same day I'd be meeting her). In the texts she said she's going to be there (i'm assuming shes doing otc with someone else ) I told her about the bed bugs report regarding the hotel and offered to just meet somewhere in a nearby park and I'd give her a "donation." She said that sounds great and she could use the $ while searching for a new job.
We had almost a two year "relationship" and shes been good. I dont mind giving her a going away present/donation. Maybe we could do some phone sex or something in the future. I'm a bit concerned about her transmitting bedbugs to me if we're sitting in her/my car and do some hugging/cuddling or if they get on her bag or something. Maybe I'm just being paranoid but I cant afford to get infested with those things. Thoughts?
My atf texted me saying shes been fired. She offered to meet otc for "wrestling" (sort of my fetish). i looked up the hotel and it sounds terrible including bed bugs, etc. I'd like to visit the strip club tomorrow anyway which is near the hotel(same day I'd be meeting her). In the texts she said she's going to be there (i'm assuming shes doing otc with someone else ) I told her about the bed bugs report regarding the hotel and offered to just meet somewhere in a nearby park and I'd give her a "donation." She said that sounds great and she could use the $ while searching for a new job.
We had almost a two year "relationship" and shes been good. I dont mind giving her a going away present/donation. Maybe we could do some phone sex or something in the future. I'm a bit concerned about her transmitting bedbugs to me if we're sitting in her/my car and do some hugging/cuddling or if they get on her bag or something. Maybe I'm just being paranoid but I cant afford to get infested with those things. Thoughts?
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If you really want to see her, offer to pony up for a better hotel room for her for the night and take a little discount.
We met in my car, sat and talked for awhile and I gave her a donation. (I didnt want to meet in the hotels in the area) She said the manager basically fired her for no reason and she's been texting him and getting no reply. She's going to ask another dancer friend of her's to talk to the manager. I suggested she apologize to him even if she did nothing wrong.
I guess her job there is over and its time for me to move on. Its too bad cause it sounded like she really needs the $. (said something about the landlord shutting her lights off, if thats true). Also, shes one of the few hot girls in the club (looks like emma from wwe).
Any tips on how she could possibly be rehired?
Is there only one club in a 25 mile radius?
To me this one sounds like way too much drama and maintenance, but I don't know what you are willing to put up with.
Girls get “fired” all the time and come back – plus; your reviews are of the NY/NJ area so I assume that is where she danced – if so; there are plenty of other clubs for her to get “hired” if she so desired.
“… We met in my car, sat and talked for awhile and I gave her a donation …”
Huh? Am I missing something obvious? You sat in the car and talked and you gave her $$$?
If this is true you should get band.
With a bf - there should be a bit of money coming in (if he has a job). Although - she could also feed you SS about his employment too.
In regard to turning things off - i think she would have to be very behind in paying her bills. I don't think they cut you off after missing only one months payment.
https://twitter.com/EmmaWWE
She looks alot like this.
Either way if it’s not her lights; it will be something else in the future which may or may not be true – she probably sees it as easy $$$ giving you w/e SS and you probably biting every time and giving her what she wants even if the emergency is not real and it’s made up.
I should have listened to you guys, feeling like I got played. She texted me and we met in the park a second time. Last time she said shes looking into different clubs but her feet hurt, couldnt wear heels. This time she was getting over a bad cold. She said she knows the dj at one club which might help her get hired. She also talked dirty (wrestling fetish) and briefly flexed. She said I helped out with her electric and cell phone bill. I'm now getting the feeling that she's done dancing. I realize we can't be close friends as she has a bf but she could at least send me one smiley face or text in two weeks. ( i hinted things about facebook which would be nice but wasn't asking outright) She made almost $400 in two 1/2 hour car meetups. I was basically in "awe" of this girl and viewed her as a wwe diva or something. Think I learned my lesson.
Postscript: It needs to be restated on TUSCL but neediness is the worst attribute a PL can have (with the exception of bad hygiene.)
You can be "friends" with her OTC aslong as she responds to texts and follows through. She might be at a new SC already but wont tell you because she doesn't want her old customers to see her in her club (spread rumors, or call her by her wrong stage name).
Better yet, head back to the club, meet someone new, and replace her. I think your money will be better spent and you'll get more enjoyment and less heartache out of it.