The Surprising Truth About Running Into People You Know While Stripping

Good article. Some of us have been here.

I was skeptical of the article as first (thinking it was mass market misconceptions drivel and myth).

Story author --> "But in the strip club, there is nothing gained by indirectness." -->

Founder should make that a tag at the bottom of every TUSCL page.

Story author --> "Nobody feels rejected, confused, or unloved because the two of them weren’t a match. By removing the ambiguity of the encounter, people were able to have their needs and desires met, and simply walk away. If only the real world operated this way." -->
--> " Or is it only allowed when you’re paying for this service, ensuring that there is no confusion?" --> end quote Story author

This is one reason why I talk to women in the SC versus talking to civilian women at a bar or some other place. I end up sending the wrong signals about wanting sex (which they assume I want) or the wrong signals to the woman about a relationship (which they want). I want self contained play-time. I don't want it following me home.

That is a well thought out article. The author makes some great insights. Well done.

I am not surprised about the "surprising truth," but I'm pleased that someone on the "other side" can recognize it. As the article states, "there is nothing gained by indirectness," though I've become accustomed to the likelihood that I'm going to get a snarky response about 25% of the time when I make statements about not wanting dances, even if I'm polite about it.

Best article on stripping I've read in a long time! Thanks for posting it!!

Very good article. Some strippers bring more or less of their "real" personality to their interactions.

gmd-->"As the article states, "there is nothing gained by indirectness," though I've become accustomed to the likelihood that I'm going to get a snarky response about 25% of the time when I make statements about not wanting dances, even if I'm polite about it. "-->

Yep, being confident and direct isn't a magic talisman against dancer nastiness... but it IS the way to minimize the nastiness you're subject to. Plus, for me, I find it puts me in a "customer is king" mindset which greatly improves my good time, versus a tuck-my-genitals-between-my-legs "I have to lie to the strippers because I'm scared" mindset that "maybe later", lies about "waiting for someone" or "I don't have any money" engender.

Excellent article

I said inside the strip club was an alternate reality. Outside of it, people would call the guy a jerk for asking for stuff that is often asked inside. People are more honest inside a strip club. Good article.

On the other hand I have heard dancers badmouthing a guy who asked for a bj. I overheard two dancers talking.

Reality is inside a strip club. It's complete BS world outside of it. One example was meeting someone I knew from work at a strip club. This guy was a supervisor at work and talked about Bible study with his work group and religious things. Here I saw him walk into a strip club with some people I have never seen before. He asked me not to say anything about seeing him here at a club. Said he would buy me two dances from a girl of my choice. He must have really wanted me to stay quiet. After I got dances, he said, let me introduce you to the people who dragged me here. This is the son of the mafia boss for our county. I was thinking I do not want to know his "friends".