Some customers who PAY STRIPPERS FOR CONVERSATION may be DESPERATE FOR AFFECTION

The reason that some customers PAY STRIPPERS FOR CONVERSATION might be that they are DESPERATE FOR AFFECTION. I am curious about responses from customers who PAY STRIPPERS FOR CONVERSATION, especially on a REGULAR BASIS. WHY do you do it??? Are you AFRAID to ask to see the stripper you are PAYING to see you OUTSIDE THE CLUB for FREE?? Are you ASKING the stripper out but she is REJECTING you and you KEEP PESTERING her while spending MONEY on her and TRYING to BUY HER AFFECTION??