I like my dancers to be in excellent physical condition. Pretty much I choose dancers who have the same body type. Short and slim. But, I've noticed the best dancers (in my book) literally melt into you sort of like you are one person. :) Short, slim, and soft. :)
The problem is I can't really see soft and have been surprised on more than a few occasions. I remember this one dancer with the perfect body and I was thinking she is in too good a shape to be soft. I was going to tell her NO when I thought what the heck you don't see a dancer this perfect too often. Wow. She was soooo soft. I was in heaven. Well toned or even strong doesn't necessarly equal hard. Another time this dancer looked soooo soft, but she was hard--her body--her personality was very soft and sweet.
Anyway it wouldn't surprise me if a lot of guys perfer hard . . . so which is it or doesn't it matter?
Hi Shekitout,
Redheads, in my experience, are either drop dead stunning or unattractive. One exception is over at the Trap Lounge. She looks like a natural red head, but she is only very attractive NOT stunning. Her personality is definitely stunning. I never spend any money on her except for the normal tips, but she is very tuned into other people's feelings. She really wants to see people enjoying themselves. And, is a very popular dancer both with customers and other dancers.
I dream of being with a natural red head some day. But, she has to be stunning or its a waste.
If you tell me that she has medium to small breasts that turn upwards and she is under 5' 7", and she is under 24, then I'd definitely be dreaming about making the trip. :) I assume she super soft . . . make Mr. Whipple forget about the Charmin.
One of the most valuable lessons I learned in the strip clubs is tastes vary in the extreme. And, a shocking number of guys don't really seem to have any real interest in a womans looks. Personality is often the name of the game.