How much stripper shit are you willing to put up with to get the pussy?
shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
How many lies? How much money? How many times will you take being stood up? How many unanswered texts or phone calls?
I think gawker's tolerance level is much higher than mine. I can take a lot of lies but I'll only take being stood up once and won't ever let them put me in a financial bind. If I don't get a reply to a text, etc within 3 or 4 days, I'm done.
Of course my tolerance level is affected by how hot she is.
I think gawker's tolerance level is much higher than mine. I can take a lot of lies but I'll only take being stood up once and won't ever let them put me in a financial bind. If I don't get a reply to a text, etc within 3 or 4 days, I'm done.
Of course my tolerance level is affected by how hot she is.
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I don't like not responding to texts or calls, so I won't put up with that.
Really though it all depends on how hot she is and how bad I want that pussy.
My ATF has lied and stood me up and lied some more. However, she recently did some things that have led me not to talk to her for a couple weeks. I may be done. Only time will tell.
Another dancer, who was very hot but not my favorite type, disrespected me one day. I have refused to get dances from her since. So I can drop a stripper if she goes too far.
If depends on the offense – if they stand me up or don't answer my texts I just take that as run of the mill stripper behavior as long as she treats me properly when/if we do hook up.
Most of the time we get to choose when we club or do OTC; i.e. we mostly get to choose when we meet a dancer according to what we may have going on – so I don't expect a dancer to be “johnny on the spot” every time I summon her – as far as I'm concerned she has a life outside of stripping which may include a BF and even a family/kids – so since I pick and choose when I want to club or meet a dancer I guess she is also free to pick and choose when and if she wants to meet w/ me.
What I have little tolerance for is a dancer lying to me to get $$$$ out of me or ripping me off.
Some of the guys here seem to be looking for more from OTC girls than I do. For the most part, all I really want is fun sex and some pre-event time drinking with them, which I usually get ITC before taking them out. I don't need cuddling time, or to take them to dinners, or to dive too deeply into their personal lives, etc. I am not taking shots at those who do - it is your time and money and you can do with it what you will. But I cannot help but notice that most of the over the top crap experienced by most guys occurs when they are pursuing these deeper connections with these girls.
To Rick that is so true I believe that most often the problem arises because many guys forget that many of these girls are con women trying to get your money with the least amount of effort on their part ,there are some exceptions but, real friendship takes time & effort by both parties. If everything is one sided you need to realize that you are being played for a fool. So I have developed no tolerance for SS.
Now I've never been shown outright disrespect by an OTC favorite and I can't imagine it tbh. I give off a no nonsense vibe and have a low tolerance for games, which my OTC favorites learn fairly quickly. I doubt that any girl I deal with for any length of time is confused about how that would work out for them.
But I'm sure I've been lied to more times than I can count. I just don't care. I don't care whether she uses my money to buy diapers or to help support a useless SO. I don't care if she is really single or not. I don't care if she is really in school or not. I don't care if she really has custody of her kid(s) or not. I could go on, but you get the point. If she made things fun barside at the club, then gave me a BJ OTC that made my toes curl and had sex with me like I was her long lost love, then she has earned her money (and then some) and doesn't need to justify to me what she is going to do with it. Simple.
Problems crop up for the guys who are needy and push to get deeper into the weeds with these girls. Of course a 20 something year old girl doesn't truly want to get intimate with a 50 or 60+ year old guy, but these guys either can't understand that or intentionally choose not to. They keep seeking these deeper connections, which leads them to doing things like loaning money and paying bills. This type of behavior also leads girls to simultaneously lose respect for them and start running even bigger cons on them.
Now maybe all of that drama is worth it to some guys, idk. Btu I find that the simple discipline of only paying a girl for services rendered keeps things much simpler and prevents a lot of the drama from ever cropping up.
You just don't understand the power pussy has on males – it's like hypnosis – even in the animal kingdom the males go thru all sorts of grief just to be the one to get that cuchie.
It's futile to try to understand why – it just is – just like the sun rises in the east and sets in the west.
Some will say that guys that go to strip clubs in general are wasting their $$$ - particularly no-touch strip-clubs – think about it – some guys will spend hundreds just to look at naked women – it is what it is – it's in the DNA.
The day men get tired of jumping thru hoops to get that pussy is the day the human species may fail to exist – and btw; most men often have to jump thru one hoop(s) or another to get that cuchie even if it's not P4P.
Being late doesn't bother me unless it gets abusuve. I tend to be 15-30 min late half the time so I'm not really one to complain about that. But I've never experienced the horror stories where she is hours late. More than one time of that kind of crap and I'd likely dump her.
Not answering texts has not really been a problem for me except in the last few weeks with the DS. And I couldn't dump her given our history. But if another dancer repeatedly failed to communicate in a timely manner that would be the end. My schedule is busy and requires advance planning so I need the girls to communicate and schedule at least a few days in advance.
Lies don't really bother me much most of the time. I expect it. Of course lies could get so bad that I'd dump the dancer but it's never gotten to that point.