If I guy gets a lapdance, is he expected to get an erection, and if he doesn't is the dancer insulted?
Do Lapdancers care if you don't get hard?
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Jump to latestI think as long as they get paid, an erection is "up" to us...:-)
Some dancers want to grab or fondle the erection, hoping to get a tip for the "extra" service
As a dancer I have never cared one way or the other if a guy I'm dancing for has an erection. If it happens it happens and if it doesn't it doesn't.
I brought this topic up some weeks ago. Some of them will wonder why you don't have a hard on. Then there might be others who could care less.


This thread and a few beers made me think of something funny I will share. Just imagine this. A 90 year old guy gets asked back to the VIP room for a lapdance. He says ok and goes back with her and sits down. She says "Ok you ready?". He says "Wait a minute", pops a pill in his mouth and says "ok, I took my viagra, I'm ready now."
Seriously though I don't believe most dancers care except for the fact that they may believe they'll get more dances and cash if mr happy is happy so I've heard.