A previous discussion claimed dancers prefer a pl who is in shape as opposed to the flabbier style "dad bods". Although a plausible and almost sensible dissertation, it is also noted that "dad bods" get equally as much ass as the fit types.
How can this be?
My theory is many strippers prefer the "Dad body" because it takes all the pressure off them to look good or feel intimidated. Since girls like to feel safe, a "Dad bod" is unthreatening as it says "I'm not going to try to take you home with me, because I have a wife and kids there!"
We all know a majority of strippers have issues of being in committed relationships, so this is as close to feeling like how it would be with a man who takes commitment seriously, yet when the dance is over they part their ways and she feels good about herself.
Maybe some of the dancers could weigh in on this theory with their own experiences, but I think the "Dad bods" get much more action than the pls that are in shape. The dancers aren't intimidated and they know what the score is. Plus the dancer really feels more desirable as an unattainable prize that must be paid for her companionship. This is really the reason why dancers get into the business. Both "Dad bod" and dancer are on the same page.
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last commentI mostly agree with you.
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Or because many have daddy issues
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I think strippers correctly stereotype more attractive guys as being choosier, more likely to try to date than drop thousands in cash, and more likely to demand higher mileage.
The basic ROB game plan is get a guy to fall in love, bleed him dry, and juggle as many PLs as possible. The guy who can fuck a 6 for free anytime is less likely to put up with shit compared to guys with less attractive physiques.
Really though, most of us are average, and cash is king.
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I agree the thought about the money issue. If your in shape dropping Benjamin's they will flock to u as much as any old fuck out there.
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Definitely don't agree that strippers prefer dad bods because it makes the strippers feel less intimidated or pressure to look good. Instead, I think it's 100% about profiling the customer -- less attractive customers may be more likely to be hustled easily, older customers (who have progressively less attractive bodies) are more likely to have more money, etc. That's it. Other than that, everything being equal -- that is, two guys have the same amount of money, same hustle factor, etc. -- I'd bet they'd do what everyone else on the planet does, choose the more attractive person.
As a side note, I have a buddy who is model-handsome, and just as civilian girls practically throw themselves at him, strippers throw themselves at him too. It can be a frustrating experience SCing with him. The strippers are definitely not intimidated.
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