I remember on a beach trip, a stripper gave me her phone number and I thought I could remember it. Anyway the number I remembered didn't work. I returned to where she worked the next night and discovered she was a bit upset. Something about waiting for the phone to ring and no one called.
I just thought of another way, tell a stripper you are out of money and then immediately get a dance from someone else. Well I didn't have enough money at the first stripper's dance price.
Shadowcat, I agree, it's amazing how many really fond memories I have of experiences in clubs. I remember one girl in particular named Tasha Smith (stage name and believe it or not her real name too.) I was on a 2 week vacation in Key West years ago, met her and spent almost every afternoon with her. What a super sweety. We stayed in touch for about 6 mnths after that. Last I heard she was working at the Hooters in downtown Jacksonville, pregnant, and planning to get married. The last time I saw her I was getting ready to head for home and I asked if I could kiss her goodby and she said yes. That's the only time I've ever kissed a stripper in a club. Wow what a girl. She was exactly what I always look for - small, cute face, nice smile, perfect figure, very friendly manner, intelligent and classy.
I wouldn't feel too bad about forgetting strippers, I often feel like I'm in a blitzkrieg of dancers coming at me left and right and cannot remember all of them. I am somewhat impressed but feel a bit forgetful if a dancer from years ago remembers me and I don't even remember her face.
You can't go through life worrying about what might offend someone else. You've got to be who you are and accept the consequences. Sounds like that girl made quite an impression though if you still remember her 30 years later.
It's easy to say that some females (probably strippers too) are Fragile, Handle with Care at Your Own Risk. They may bite too.
If we could figure out why strippers sometimes get pissed off, maybe we could figure out why females in general do too. I've never been able to figure that out.
I made the idiotic mistake of calling a girl fat once. She was giving me a lapdance and then I said something about how fat girls were all right and I was basically persona non grata at that club after that for that night.
At a strip clun on Nogales Mexico I took a beautiful girl to a booth for $20. She got naked and then got me naked and then went down on me. All I could think of was what disease I was going to catch because I didn't have a condom. She didn't speak english and I didn't speak spanish. I motioned for her to stop and then gently pulled her up. She pouted for a minute and then left the booth without getting dressed or paid.
She could have been ticked off before she danced for you for some other reason. It's hard to tell what she may be thinking about when she is just standing there doing her dances.
Once I took a really hot dancer into a VIP room for several dances and when we finished she was clearly pissed off and I didn't have the faintest idea why. I gave her what we had agreed on in advance, and I didn't do anything out of the ordinary. This was a high-contact club where you pay $20 a song to use the room, then tip the girl on top of that. We negotiated the girl's tip in advance which she agreed to. I didn't attempt to touch anywhere that was off limits. I still have no idea why she was pissed. Maybe she thought I'd tip more. Never had that happen either before or since.
I suggested to a stripper who was complaining about lack of business that she might consider a web site. She yelled at me and told me to stop telling her how to run her business. I reminded her that all I did was respond to her request for suggestions. Then I left her standing there alone and went on to more civilized dancers.
Was at Ricks in Seattle getting a number of dances from one of my ATFs when she got called up on stage. Said she'd come right back. Figured I'd pay her when we finished but while she was on stage my pager went off. I went out of the club to make a call and when I tried to come back in the door person wanted to charge me another cover. I left. Since I'm only in Seattle a few times a year for work, I didn't pay my dancer for 3-4 months. I did give her a tip for all the crap. She was mad for a while but then things got back to normal, and the dances actually got better.
Women are VERY touchy, about everything, especially their looks... Once, a good looking gal, long dark hair asked me what I liked best about her. I told her all the good stuff, then made the mistake of pointing out that she had a very slight moustache on her upper lip. Basically, she was Italian, and had a little dark fuzz on pale skin over her upper lip. Well, that was a mistake...Never again! I was young, and have since learned not to mention it...:-<