Less Careful if Single and Self-Employed

12 comments

• JohnSmith69

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  9 years ago

  I'm transitioning from married to single. At least I think I am, although I recognize that some of you will claim that I'm married to the DS. The main result so far via women and sex of being separated is that I'm visiting more local strip clubs than I used too. This is mostly cause I'm no longer being watched by her when I'm home. I would never go to an AMP but that's probably because I'm not into Asian women, and for some strange reason I associate AMPs with Mexican bar table dancing. I can't imagine why a person who was experienced in strip clubs would ever want to use an escort site. Plenty of strippers will escort with the right guy, and it's so much better because you can try before you buy and the LE risk is much lower.
• Clubber

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  9 years ago

  Well, when I was retired, I hardly went to clubs. Difficult to make an excuse for the wife. We most always go everywhere together. Most of my clubbing is related to my work travel. As for how it would be were I single, check on shadow's posts. :)
• shailynn

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  9 years ago

  Double edged sword - where I live the strip clubs suck so I wouldn't be clubbing more. There are no AMP options but I wouldn't use them anyway. I club when I travel for work or leisure so with no S.O. I would travel more often to club and probably do more weekends clubbing between work assignments while out on the road
• skibum609

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  9 years ago

  If I were single and unemployed I would actually date women in real life and not go here at all.
• shadowcat

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  9 years ago

  I agree with Clubber. :)
• georgmicrodong

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  9 years ago

  My habits wouldn't change significantly I think. I might go a little more, but I wouldn't want to get "burned out" on strip clubs. As if that were a thing.
• 4got2wipe

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  9 years ago

  Since I split from my ex I split my time between strippers and using the dachshund system on civis, with an emphasis on the latter!
• Subraman

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  9 years ago

  I've transitioned from married to single. It doesn't change the type of fun I have -- I continue to have no interest in AMPs, or in escorts (but if I did have interest in escorts, I wouldn't scrape the bottom of the barrel with backpage girls). What's changed is how I do the things I already enjoy: strip clubs and FBSM/bodyrubs. With strip clubs, I come and go when and how I want, most strippers have my "real" phone number, I don't mind booking hotel rooms under my real name (up until a few years ago, no stripper ever knew my actual name!), etc. With bodyrub girls, I can go often enough to do develop a bit more of a relationship -- I had the equivalent of my first OTC with a bodyrub girl a couple of years ago (started off with going to dinner, then hanging out at her place...) and I have a 2nd lined up.
• shailynn

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  9 years ago

  skibum609 you make a very valid point which I totally forgot about... One of my best friends is divorced and he has dates all the time. He doesn't comprehend why I do what I do and I try to explain to him that I can't do what he does and this is my only option that is somewhat "safe." He thinks I should be doing what he does but be discreet, I told him - "too risky!" On the other hand I have a good friend that loves to do what I do because he is incapable of having a girlfriend or dating because he's somewhat wild and has this total commitment fear which makes girls run away from him the moment they meet him, well and he lives with his mom too! lol
• magicrat

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  9 years ago

  Re: Clubber.......Well, when I was retired, I hardly went to clubs. Difficult to make an excuse for the wife. We most always go everywhere together. Most of my clubbing is related to my work travel. As for how it would be were I single, check on shadow's posts. :) Took the words right out of my mouth! I have a similar relationship with my spouse so the strip clubs are the "safest" avenue for me as well. I have explored the world of the Sugardaddy/Sugarbaby and it can really be enjoyable and about the same cost as going to strip clubs (assuming $2-300 per visit all in). In a few instances the sugar babies decided they liked the 'rat and wanted to turn it into a relationship. That got kind of scary but the sex became free after awhile so not all bad. So I would pursue the SB thing before I would hit up backpage or amps if I were single.
• just_the_nuts

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  9 years ago

  I do all those its called being a hobbyists
• crsm27

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  9 years ago

  Alright... well I am single, self-employed.... So with me my clubbing is here and there. But the clubs in my area don't do ITC and you have to try for OTC. Also the clubs in my area are not the greatest on sexy talent. but read my reviews and you will see which ones offer some action. Now the AAMPS... well again mostly non-existant in my area as well. But I have ventured into them and is ok. backpage... have dipped into that as well... again hit or miss but some diamonds in the rough. Now the civies.... again like always in this case... hit or miss. So to answer your question.... it is a balance of all. Depends what you are in the mood for and the availability of them all. If I am having bad luck with the civies and need a sure thing..... I go to an AAMP or research backpages (make sure you look on the other site...). If I am having luck with the civies....and just want some boob in my face with possibility of something if I feel the vibe..... clubs. It is just a balance you have to decide on.