DO NOT repeatedly pester THE SAME STRIPPER to see you OUTSIDE THE CLUB

Who does this?

What do you do?

why not try a DIFFERENT girl?

Oh yeah, if you are going to look for love in a club, try a bikini bar or another such place that doesn't do private dances. Those girls are just there to make a little extra money on the side, and are less likely to have alterior motives if the topic of seeing each other outside the club comes up. I basically got asked out by a dancer in a bikini bar once. She was new in town and basically looking for a guy to show her around. Unfortunately I was just visiting on a business trip, so it wasn't a match.

This is true for all women, not just strippers. If they're not interested in you, there's only one thing to do - move on.

Of course, looking for love in a strip club is just a plain bad idea. The odds are so stacked against you it's not even funny. But there are the Han Solos out there who say "Never tell me the odds"....

why not try different?

what about someone else?

I am coming close to certainty that RL is a stripper who wants us all to know what kind of jackasses bother the ladies...:-)

RL the expert on strippers I have a question. What do you do when a stripper pesters you and keeps saying "come on lets get out of this club and go do the thing. She says she's horny but you happen to be tired. Just what would you do RL? Just say no? What if she keeps pestering you? What if she threatens to suck your member right in the club if you don't leave with her? I suppose RL will dream about this one now but not give an answer.

Better yet, don't ask at all.

What about asking out different strippers?

I think you pestered a stripper RL. That's what I think. Don't worry about it though, she probably pestered a few other guys to get dances much more than you ever pestered her.

What do you think?