So I posted a review of a club - well written if I do say so myself. Then I get a private message from a guy who wants more explicit details...as in "What was the dancer's name?" "What was she willing to do?" Now I can understand that a guy looking to spend his money wisely wants to do his research - but the idea of more details gives me some pause. As the old saying goes - on the internet, nobody knows your a dog! So...is the guy who wrote to me just a guy trying to get the most out of his strip club spending? Or, maybe he is the club manager checking up on the girls, or a jealous dancer trying to dime out the competition....or worst of all a jealous husband/boyfriend who gives a girl a punch in the face because he thinks he found out something she did that is different from what he thinks is going on.
Now I'm all for giving props to girls who work hard for the money. Candy gives a great lap dance, or Tiffany was really sensuous. I don't really think there is that much of a negative possibility in that. But, if you write Dancer X gave me a BBBJ for $100....it seems like there are ways that could go wrong...see above.
And anyway...are details really that reliable? Strip clubs are a lot like high school. An awful lot of the time...the girl you want to talk to is busy wanting to talk to some other guy. And, even if your best buddy swears the head cheerleader let him finger bang her...that is no guarantee she is going to let you! Every day is a new adventure.
So - I appreciate a certain level of details in a review. It is very helpful in deciding where to go and in general what to expect. But, I am discomforted by a level of detail that could lead to trouble for a dancer - who works hard for the money - and who I might want to visit again confident she hasn't had a punch in the mouth since the last time as was there. Well...at least not because of something I wrote.
You've been a member for a while and even posted several reviews yourself. You should have developed some instincts by now on how to handle this. Look at who messaged you to see what his/her TUSCL "footpint" is. Is he/she an established member? Meaning has he/she written some reviews him/herself? if not has he/she at least hosted some discussions? Or at the very least made some comments? If he/she is "established" you can probably give any of the details asked that you're comfortable answering. If the member is brand new, just now joined, and that message to you is his/her first, then maybe it's an "inquiring mind that wants to know" and is of the other types you mentioned.