As demeaning as it sounds, for this topic p4p “date” is defined as compensating the honey for OTC dining, drinking, dancing etc… The outing may or may not include sex.
Clothed or unclothed I love being in the company of beautiful young women. Whatever sexy hormonal mist they emit is like a drug for me. I’m addicted big time.
The first time I arranged such a date with a honey, my mind was filled with all sorts of nightmare scenarios wondering if she would show up, would I get ripped off, would it be fun etc… Well, the honey showed up to the mid range restaurant on time looking stunning and we had blast drinking, dining, dancing well into the night. She was fully engaged, attentive and acted like she was having the time of her life.
All subsequent dates (except one) with different dancers played out the same fun way. They were a blast. Some of the funnest outings I’ve had.
And yea I get it, its all about the money and these ladies wouldn’t be caught dead with me in public if cash wasn’t involved. Regardless, they seemed to enjoy spending time in a nice place with someone that knows how to hold a conversation and have a good time.
As for compensation, surprisingly it is far less than sitting with a dancer in a SC for evening. This, excluding food and drink.
So for you fellas contemplating taking your fav OTC for an evening of casual or fine dining, I highly recommend it.
I absolutely agree with you -- to a point. Almost all of my OTCs are mixed with a lot of time drinking, talking, eating, flirting, etc, and I have had some seriously fun times with strippers. That said, I've set a few rules for myself. Not many ... 1. If we're not having sex, I'll pay for all the food/alcohol/entry-fees/etc., but will not pay her for her time, and 2. I don't ever call it a date, it just helps keep my head clear.
You'd think rule #1 would leave me with not many options, but I've found it fairly easy to get buy-in on this, and there are lots of strippers who I regularly took out drinking after their shift was over, there are several strippers I've taken strip-club-hopping, etc. I agree with you, it's a blast. In all cases, I would have preferred the evening end with sex, but they wouldn't agree to the sex part, so I told them "okay, but I"m not paying for your time", they agreed, and we had a blast.