moment of weakness. admittance of pl-dom
Who here hasn't been hustled by a dancer? Difference is I knew what she was doing and shouldve politely smile but instead I did it anyways.Simple situation. Girl gave string of dances when asked how many she gave correct count but said the words I told myself I would never fall for "but you could give me more if you want to." And the worst part isn't that I did, but that it felt good falling for such a pl move.
Granted now I may trying to justify it, but she is my ATF and knows it, has never asked before, and planned ahead to know what exactly to do if she asks again.
So what are some of your biggest pl moves?
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Honestly, I kind of think it's more PL-ish not to tip for good service -- then you're cheap and not encouraging the good ones to be good. Yes, it's PL-ish to tip for bad service, too, but since you "gave in," I'm thinking she might have deserved a tip, anyway.
Most PL-ish thing I ever did: Two rooms with a girl, then went to the casino with her and blew more money. Then drove her back home across state lines as the sun came up. Damn she was hot, but when we lost at the casino, she blamed me. I think OTC might have been on the table had we had some semblance of success. Instead, she basically just closed the door on me when we got to her place. A lot of money for very little reward.
My moves? I don't think I have any; I'm just myself. I don't even tell them I'm in a band because it's unimportant.
Oh, man... When I first started out clubbing, I was taken advantage of so many times I can't even remember...
But with experience comes wisdom. And I'm much more in control at the clubs now spending wise. It takes a lot to get me to go to VIP now. And I'm negotiatiating before hand and knowing exactly what is expected and what it will cost. But that's come as personal experience in hard knocks in the back room.
The saying: "A fool and his money are soon parted" is certainly true in a strip club.
I learned long ago that you can't really go in there "looking for something" from the dancers. Instead you need to be thinking, "What can I bring, what can I give?"
So yes, it always costs money, but if one goes in with the right attitude about it, and if one practices some degree of cost control, it can still be a good experience.
SJG
Classic PL..
W lds I generally reward good service by buying more and stop short w bad. Now if its extraordinary than yeah she definitely deserves one ;)