expectations
phoenixxxblaque
this is a post on expectations..what people expect when they walk into a club...and how those expectations figure into what is rated good over bad.
i,ve read alot of club/dancer reviews..and one word always seems to pop up in high frequency..mileage...clubs and dancers are rated by mileage,,a word used to describe how far you can go before a red light surfaces.some people go into clubs with VERY high expectations and then get frustrated or post so so or bad reviews when thier high expectations arent met...but what exactly is a reasonable expectation from one that is a bit high..here are my thoughts.
as a client,a reasonable expectation is the following...to be treated with respect and courtesy..that dancers be friendly and entertaining...not to be ripped off or lied to...for the dancers to look and act their best and be pictures of different fantasies you as a client could have..a UNREASONABLE expectation would be the following...expecting dancers to hand out thier real names,phone numbers or so forth to you...expecting to find a "girlfriend" figure in the club.....expecting to put your fingers or lips on orfices or skin that isnt yours..or recieving risky sexual extras...expecting a girl to meet you outside the club.these,i feel,arent reasonable club expectations..these are things that involve personal sexual involvement or contact that is best outside the club..i,m not booing or hissing at you men for wanting these things...but,think about it....are you basing your club/dancer ratings on taboo things or reasonable things that come with respect and courtesy?i would expect a bad rating to a dancer who treated you badly,ripped you off,or acted like you werent there during a dance....but not for the girl who did her best to entertain within the club rules and really made an effort to make you happy.is a great rating based on the amount of poking,prodding,licking or so forth that can occur...or is it based on true effort and abilty to be a entertainer?i know its a blurry line,i know....depending on who you talk to and what they feel is their kind of entertainment..there is a fine line between entertaining and cheap sexual thrills....i feel that if you go into a club and you get things there,good for you..but you should really base your ratings on the behavior and entertainemnt value of the girls as a whole...i,m a dancer,and i,m not trying to be bossy here,just expressing my point of view about club/dancer ratings...i,m interested to hear what you gentlemen have to say...thanks
i,ve read alot of club/dancer reviews..and one word always seems to pop up in high frequency..mileage...clubs and dancers are rated by mileage,,a word used to describe how far you can go before a red light surfaces.some people go into clubs with VERY high expectations and then get frustrated or post so so or bad reviews when thier high expectations arent met...but what exactly is a reasonable expectation from one that is a bit high..here are my thoughts.
as a client,a reasonable expectation is the following...to be treated with respect and courtesy..that dancers be friendly and entertaining...not to be ripped off or lied to...for the dancers to look and act their best and be pictures of different fantasies you as a client could have..a UNREASONABLE expectation would be the following...expecting dancers to hand out thier real names,phone numbers or so forth to you...expecting to find a "girlfriend" figure in the club.....expecting to put your fingers or lips on orfices or skin that isnt yours..or recieving risky sexual extras...expecting a girl to meet you outside the club.these,i feel,arent reasonable club expectations..these are things that involve personal sexual involvement or contact that is best outside the club..i,m not booing or hissing at you men for wanting these things...but,think about it....are you basing your club/dancer ratings on taboo things or reasonable things that come with respect and courtesy?i would expect a bad rating to a dancer who treated you badly,ripped you off,or acted like you werent there during a dance....but not for the girl who did her best to entertain within the club rules and really made an effort to make you happy.is a great rating based on the amount of poking,prodding,licking or so forth that can occur...or is it based on true effort and abilty to be a entertainer?i know its a blurry line,i know....depending on who you talk to and what they feel is their kind of entertainment..there is a fine line between entertaining and cheap sexual thrills....i feel that if you go into a club and you get things there,good for you..but you should really base your ratings on the behavior and entertainemnt value of the girls as a whole...i,m a dancer,and i,m not trying to be bossy here,just expressing my point of view about club/dancer ratings...i,m interested to hear what you gentlemen have to say...thanks
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I had a dancer do that and she was very sweet offering me a full refund AND she was willing to advise me which girls would go with the clubs limits and beyond. I didn't take advantage of the refund and had a nice time, although I wouldn't buy dances from her in the future. She was very honest and only wanted satisfied customers.
Please Read phoenixxxblaque postings and notice how she continually talks about her "feelings".
Pure "Chick Logic"... "If it doesn't feel right to "me"...well it must be wrong!"
Look Phoenix, I have no Idea what would convince you to come to this Board...but like ShadowCat...I have my doubts about your motives.
As a woman, you should get a grip on the fact that men want sex.
Whether it range from titilating conversation to hardcore fucking....our motives are hardwired. Women who cater to this base knowledge and understanding...."Capitalize".
Those that don't.....bitch about their feelings.
"some of the posts i read talked about dance"mileage"..wtf?are dancers cars now?what the whole mileage thing means is how far you,ll let them go in a dance..how risque things can get..some guys say that unless you allow lots of things that doesnt make for a good dance...ditto that if you dont show alot of skin or let them lick all over you or kiss you..my view..a good dance is just that...good...its how the lady entertains you...if she is portraying the fantasy and is at least acting like shes enjoying it(or actually is)..being risque or whatever MAY play into it or not,but i think any man who goes into a strip club looking for mileage or extras and thats how he bases his satisfaction on a dance or not ought to save himself and dancers the hassle by calling up an escort,because,really,hes looking for private fun,not just a dance for entertainment.
Definition: Air Dancer!
She's pretty twisted go to her website and read some of her BS...She's your average dancer on the TAKE.
http://www.cumgetsum.com/pages/fs_holder…
As for a specific dancers, I like dancers that at least phyisically look like they enjoy what they are doing (i.e. not overly drunk or on something). I expect that the girl be relatively clean. As for a private dance, I like girls that go reasonably close to the limit of the rules. They don't have to go over. For example, if the rules allow one way contact (as my favorite club does), I expect some one way contact during the dance. An air dance won't do it for me there and I will not likely get another dance from her.
I believe Shadowcat assumes you work in Tampa because you reviewed clubs in Tampa. You say you work in a bikini bar. How many bikini bars could there be in that area? Ergo you're promoting the Foxy's.
Shadowcat recently nabbed Dragman so his inductive reasoning is probably on high alert! :)
I feel the same way. Also, one of my best experiences was when a dancer did some cocaine before the dance. The drug seemed to magnify what she was already feeling. The downside is she sounded like she was addicted. I wish I had the money to afford her.
The male posters get treated like that as well. I think it some form of bonding exercise. :) Or it could just be some difficulty reading/thinking.
My club reviews seem to be very unpopular so if you're very bored, then you could read a couple to see what gets some people's blood boiling. It doesn't take much. :)
I did previously READ your club reviews (one of those clubs deserved a 10 ;) ) and I didn't see any problems.
The male posters get treated like that as well. I think it is some form of bonding exercise. :) Or it could just be some difficulty reading/thinking.
My club reviews seem to be very unpopular so if you're very bored, then you could read a couple to see what gets some people's blood boiling. It doesn't take much. :)
I did previously READ your club reviews (one of those clubs deserved a 10 ;) ) and I didn't see any problems.
and i havent posted here about where i work,hours or so forth,so anyone who says i,m doing public relations for my club needs to take a good look again....theres nothing mentioning anything of that nature here...i didnt come here to spam the board....just state what i feel.if it isnt welcome,my apologies for barging into the he-man woman haters club and not knowing it.have a good night
I think the expectations depend a lot on the club. If I can't feel a dancer out, then I would just as soon buy videos.