expectations
Tuesday, February 1, 2005 10:57 AM
this is a post on expectations..what people expect when they walk into a club...and how those expectations figure into what is rated good over bad.
i,ve read alot of club/dancer reviews..and one word always seems to pop up in high frequency..mileage...clubs and dancers are rated by mileage,,a word used to describe how far you can go before a red light surfaces.some people go into clubs with VERY high expectations and then get frustrated or post so so or bad reviews when thier high expectations arent met...but what exactly is a reasonable expectation from one that is a bit high..here are my thoughts.
as a client,a reasonable expectation is the following...to be treated with respect and courtesy..that dancers be friendly and entertaining...not to be ripped off or lied to...for the dancers to look and act their best and be pictures of different fantasies you as a client could have..a UNREASONABLE expectation would be the following...expecting dancers to hand out thier real names,phone numbers or so forth to you...expecting to find a "girlfriend" figure in the club.....expecting to put your fingers or lips on orfices or skin that isnt yours..or recieving risky sexual extras...expecting a girl to meet you outside the club.these,i feel,arent reasonable club expectations..these are things that involve personal sexual involvement or contact that is best outside the club..i,m not booing or hissing at you men for wanting these things...but,think about it....are you basing your club/dancer ratings on taboo things or reasonable things that come with respect and courtesy?i would expect a bad rating to a dancer who treated you badly,ripped you off,or acted like you werent there during a dance....but not for the girl who did her best to entertain within the club rules and really made an effort to make you [view link] a great rating based on the amount of poking,prodding,licking or so forth that can occur...or is it based on true effort and abilty to be a entertainer?i know its a blurry line,i know....depending on who you talk to and what they feel is their kind of entertainment..there is a fine line between entertaining and cheap sexual thrills....i feel that if you go into a club and you get things there,good for you..but you should really base your ratings on the behavior and entertainemnt value of the girls as a whole...i,m a dancer,and i,m not trying to be bossy here,just expressing my point of view about club/dancer ratings...i,m interested to hear what you gentlemen have to say...thanks
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