What customer does she choose?
I visted a club today and where I got to see this dancer I haven't seen in almost a year. This club is more of a predominatly white club although they have a mixture of different races of customers. They had 2black girls working there today but only one of them was dancing the other one was waitressing. My favorite dancer whom I hadn't seen in a while is white. We have always been cool with each other in the past. I have even discussed my past relationship with her and she has given me some advice on the matter. Well when it was her time to dance I went up stage side to tip her. While she was onstage I asked her "Are you going to come sit with me?" She said yes. Well after she got off stage she didn't come to my table and talk with me instead she sat at a table with this white guy whom was sitting next to me at the stage. I know for a fact that this guy didn't not mutter a word to her of ask for a dance while she was onstage dancing but yet she decides to sit with him. The guy did eventually get a few dances from her but I knew it was after she sat down with him that he decided to get one. Maybe this guy was a regular I don't know but she knows that I am a regualar also and I do get dances from her so it is not like I was wasting her time by asking her to sit with me. Meanwhile while she was giving dances to this guy there was a attractive blackwaitress whom was trying to get me to get a dance from her. I was tempted to get one from her but even though she was nice looking, nice looking doesn't always equate to a good lapdance. So I ended up telling the blackgirl no and waite on Blake to get threw with her dances. Later on when she got back on stage I asked her for a dance and when she was threw with her set she came and sat down at my table. I got a dance from her but was wondering whether I should have given my money to the black girl. I knew that Blake would give a good dance(which she did) but I didn't like the fact of being put 2nd especially after I asked her first to come sit with me. My question to you all is if a dancer is white and she has 2regulars one who is white and one who is black which one does she choose to come to first? Both of them spend money on her and are courteous. Does race play a part in this situation? Maybe Blake isn't as cool as I thought she was at first? I do know that next time I vist and if that blackwaitress is still working there I will get a dance from her and not Blake or any of the other white dancers there. It my sound like I am making a prejudice statement but I treat people the way they treat me. If the Blackgirl is nice looking and courteous then that is who I am going to get a dance from now on. I am not trying to be hateful, I like women of all races but I am not going to keep showing interest in somone when they know that I am a nice person but yet chooses to go with someone else simply because they are the same skin color.
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The racism or racist reasoning I witness is often chilling and perhaps it just reflects the unusual people I know.
If a person doesn't have power over me, then their racism or hate will register almost zero. For example, this super hot dancer was not a very nice person. She might of just hated whites, but I think it was a lot deeper than that. It made no difference to me (I even bought a good number of dances from her) as long as I didn't see a real threat. Let's pretend she was a police officer. Wow, I'm suddenly very concerned about her hatreds because I see a very real threat (in this society). Let's pretend we live in a society where I have an absolute right to defend myself. Now, I'm not so concerned about her hatreds even if she's a police officer.
It is antagonizing when a black person starts making all manner of "reasonable" assumptions and conclusions (whites do the same nonsense, btw, and usually it is pointless to try and reason with them).
I remember this white police officer showing me a picture of a man he was looking for. The officer was already aware that I had given the man help. After I identified the man he says to me do you know what color he is? I smile and say in my eyes he is black. This startled the officer. He says it is against the rules for you to help a black male (helping a black female might be acceptable). I relate the story the man had told me. To my revulsion and disgust the officer confirmed the story was true. I tell him, NO *you* are the one violating the rules. And, I consider it an act of war. Well, blah, blah, blah. The good news is I didn't get arrested or harassed further over the incident.