New boyfriends

SC, this will be the boyfriends that would go to a club and expect high mileage dances from other girls?

londonguy - Actually no. the ones that I'm taking about are the ones that the dancers see as saviors or at least sugar daddies.

SC, I didn't think many girls saw any guy as such. Thought most of them had very low opinions of us guys and we were only good for handing over cash.

If it were up to me, boyfriends wouldn't be allowed inside a SC where his girlfriend worked period. Far too risky!

I agree with SC. the break-ups are much more beneficial to us

I've had that too. When my #2 got a B/F she wasn't nearly as "vigorous" and I missed it. But then when she broke up I had the highest mileage ever! My ATF on the other hand is mostly into girls, and those relationships don't seem to affect her performance.

Londonguy they may have low opinions of the customers but they think of their boyfriends as gods. I know several who's BFs are drug dealers.

SC, "Ban Boy Friends" would be good slogan for your T-shirt this week!

Makes sense that dancers with new boyfriends would want to dance clean, even if it hurts her earnings.

Definitely true. For example, my ATF temporarily stopped giving me blowjobs when she got a new boyfriend.

This works the other way as well. When we find a new favorite, the money flowing to the old favorites often diminishes. Dream stripper, for example, has led to my ATF suffering a substantial loss of income.

Bullshit reasons strippers make up to convince customers that their mileage is going down without pissing them off:

1. I got in trouble from the bouncer/management, they are watching me now
2. Got a boyfriend and I need to lower my mileage for him

Anyway, sometimes those reasons are real, sometimes she's just decided to lower your mileage and needs a reason that won't irritate you -- "hey, it's out of my control, if it were up to me, I'd INCREASE your mileage, sweetie!"

I usually stick with her for a little while, and miraculously my mileage goes back up in a few weeks. If not, I put her on the bench for a while and dance with other girls, and in a few months, I might go back to her, and miraculously, my mileage is often back up again.

It seems like all the strippers are in relationships nowadays.

@ Shadow: What I've had happen, with just one dancer, is that when she got a new boyfriend, I wasn't allowed to either text her, or see her OTC. She used to go through boyfriends quickly--about three months duration for any one relationship I ever remember her having.

@ Alyssa: Good observation. Boyfriends, husbands, and other ne'er-do-wells of dancers are bad for business in strip clubs. One example: Another dancer was so happy to point out her new boyfriend in the club one night, that I didn't even get dances with her that night. Just the thought of her boyfriend being in the club, while I have my hands on her boobs was a real mood killer.

If I was a stripper boyfriend I wood be really pissed off when my dick falls off

New (or old) boyfriends don't seem to impact my mileage in any way.

As Janet Jackson would say “That’s the way love goes”

they all end up dumping these boyfriends right after valentine's day.

Valentines if not Christmas. The holidays is a popular time for breakups.

New boy friends have definitely been a hindrance to OTC with a couple of favs, but haven't experienced any ITC impact.

My comment above, pertained to ITC. I just remembered that a dancer's boyfriend may have facilitated an OTC with me. I'm pretty sure it was a dancer's boy friend who drove her to my house the first two times I saw her for OTC. By the third time, she mentioned both that she had broken up with her latest boyfriend and that she'd need me to pick her up to go to my house. But those two facts were not even in the same sentence. It was still creepy to me to know her boyfriend was the one who drove her!