Microcosm for the real world

That's likely true. The less I worry about fucking a stripper, the more likely it is to happen. Back in my 20's when I was faithfully married (and not having sex), I couldn't get laid to save my life. Now it's not a problem, even for free, and I'm an old man (55)!

Hey now, you're an all-star! And a Rockstar. Plus a 666er.

IDK for sure women want a bad guy – but a pushover w/ no backbone is the worst thing a guy can be – def better to be an a-hole than a no-backbone pushover.

IMO you can be nice; but not a pushover.

“… Strippers can tell who is even the slightest desperate for sex, actually all girls can, but strippers especially. And they can tell who doesn't need it from then because they got plenty of civie variety when they leave the club …”

Solid point.

This is why I often roll my eyes when a PL is paying a stripper for sex and still think they have something more w/ the girl than P4P.

@rockstar666 weird when I was married I got more ass than I could shake a stick at. I swear a ring on the finger was the biggest turn on for those girls...now that I think about it where did I put that thing?

@Papi good point. I guess you can be nice but Stearns and it could work. I just hear too many civvies saying nice guys are weak and not a challenge and not a turn on. I can only assume this is exponentially true with strippers.

And why do girls always seem to hit on you when you aren't even thinking about sex with them? Seeing if you can turn on a dime?

@dougster that because they want to see how pretty they are. Of you aren't interested and they turn you on then they feel special. Opposed to you already being turned on and looking to poke anything

GACAclub,

Yes, I think you've got it right about strippers, and about women in general. I don't think strippers are quite a tough as you seem to. But your basic idea about them and bad boys and all is right.

SJG