Trouble finishing off
patriots22
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Anyway, as I was about to leave a new girl was on the stage that was a solid 9 with a great firm, natural tits. I asked her for a lap dance. She didn't put my hands on her tits or ask me to touch them during the LD but she didn't object at all when I slowly moved my hands onto them. She wasn't really touching my dick that much either but I was enjoying myself so I told her I was ready to go to the VIP room for 15 minutes. <br>
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The first half was just a continuation of the LD, but then out of the blue without saying anything she reached over and got a napkin. I wasn't planning on getting a handjob, especially for no additional cost but who am I to refuse one? <br>
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Here's the sad part though, even though I'm married I masturbate a lot, so not even my wife can make me cum with her hands. I'm just so used to my hands that when someone else does it, it's so different that it's hard for me to cum. Plus I masturbated the night before which didn't help (like I said, I wasn't planning on getting a HJ otherwise I wouldn't have jerked off the night before). <br>
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She spit on her hands and spent the last half of the time trying to make me cum but I couldn't even though I wanted to so bad. After a few minutes I was tempted to just take over and finish myself but I didn't want to offend her. I was was hoping she would let me titty fuck her but I didn't know if she would go for that or how to approach brining that up. <br>
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So I never came, but I still gave her a very good tip when we were done. She said she felt bad and it was unusual that I didn't cum. I told her it wasn't her fault and there were just too many distractions. <br>
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What would be the right thing to say in this situation? I'm also thinking of laying off masturbating for a few days and then going back, maybe I'll have a little better luck.
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Distraction is part of it. Getting a blow job make it easier to ignore distractions. :)
They (dancers) have been there done that – they come into contact w/ a 100 PLs or more in any given week – not too much faces them unless is way out there.
Yean – the masturbation thing will def impact your SC performance – not that there is anything wrong w/ masturbating; but you will not be at “your peak” when ready to do battle in the SC :).
Like I mentioned; dancers have been there done that and not much faces them – some dancers are willing to do certain things and some are not but they (dancers) know that certain dancers do certain things and that certain customers want or ask for certain things – i.e. they are not going to get offended b/c you ask – they know the deal/game – they will either say yes or no – they normally just get offended if they custy persists on tries to force them to do something they don’t want/like to do or if the custy does not pay them the fair rate.
BTW – what club was this where you got this excellent service?
Also – it’s natural to feel a bit uncomfortable when engaging with someone one does not know very well and in a kinda public and unfamiliar place like a SC – especially if one is not used to the scene.
Wasn’t that the name of a movie?
Oh – never mind – that was “Trouble with the curve”
Sex is more of an art than a science.
Actually I’m not 100’% sure of that but it sounds good.
Plus – for most sex workers (e.g. strippers; etc) – they are just thinking of the money and don’t necessarily have your pleasure in mind – i.e. they go thru the motions.
In fact – it’s seems more of the exception to find females that have as much of a sex drive or desire for sex as most men – so at best, often females (civvies; sex-workers) are doing it b/c the male wants it and not b/c they (females) are into it – i.e. most people are not good at what they don’t enjoy.