The reason that strippers often REFUSE to see a customer OUTSIDE THE CLUB for FREE is because they are NOT INTERESTED in spending time with that customer when they are not being PAID to. Some strippers make up EXCUSES and LIES but that is often the reason.
There are many reasons. I thought this topic was recently covered in another post.
SAFETY. Dancers have bouncers at the club. OTC, there are no bouncers. For some reason, people behave mostl of the time at the club because there are some big guys that tell you to.
RELATIONSHIP. Most dancers have some sort of relationship going on. Baby's father, the other baby's father, boyfriend, the other boyfriend, ex-spouse, ex-boyfriend, ex-girlfriend, etc. They have multitude of issues that make their life hectic and filled with drama. That leads to the next item.
TIME. They usually do not have time to see a customer outside the club. There time is used for school is they are taking classes, caring or arranging for care for the kid(s), sneaking to see the other boyfriend, solving other dancers' problems and using recreational products.
INTEREST. When you are trying to see a dancer OTC, do they actual have an interest in someone like you? If you see her talking to a certain time of guys, are you that type? There are many guys who will pursue a dancer who has no interest in them (physical appearance, clothing style, musical interest, etc.).
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SAFETY. Dancers have bouncers at the club. OTC, there are no bouncers. For some reason, people behave mostl of the time at the club because there are some big guys that tell you to.
RELATIONSHIP. Most dancers have some sort of relationship going on. Baby's father, the other baby's father, boyfriend, the other boyfriend, ex-spouse, ex-boyfriend, ex-girlfriend, etc. They have multitude of issues that make their life hectic and filled with drama. That leads to the next item.
TIME. They usually do not have time to see a customer outside the club. There time is used for school is they are taking classes, caring or arranging for care for the kid(s), sneaking to see the other boyfriend, solving other dancers' problems and using recreational products.
INTEREST. When you are trying to see a dancer OTC, do they actual have an interest in someone like you? If you see her talking to a certain time of guys, are you that type? There are many guys who will pursue a dancer who has no interest in them (physical appearance, clothing style, musical interest, etc.).