Is a lap dance sex?
I have heard my ex says a lap dance is having sex with a woman. I place the bar higher for sex.
I guess I need a hobby but the other day I made a list of the dancers I have met. I could name 49 by dancer name, describe them a bit. Then there are those I know their real first name, those I know their last name, those I've been to their place. But I'd guess I've had dances from two hundred ladies. So if asked can I say I've had sex with two hundred women?
I guess I need a hobby but the other day I made a list of the dancers I have met. I could name 49 by dancer name, describe them a bit. Then there are those I know their real first name, those I know their last name, those I've been to their place. But I'd guess I've had dances from two hundred ladies. So if asked can I say I've had sex with two hundred women?
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That is what you're looking for. Make it perfect by doing it wholesale.
Otherwise, it is simple arousal, delightful to the senses. Petting, necking, etc.
That's like asking a dancer if sucking on my finger is the same thing as her sucking on my dick. If she says yes, I know which one I'll let her suck on.
Sex with my ex was hot but she only was in the mood half the time I wanted. If she wasn't in the mood she say "go take care of it yourself". Just wish I'd done that at my local sc. Marriage is a special thing.
However, if you're spending more money and/or time at the club than you are with your SO, I quote from an article I read the other day:
"When an adulterous man is found out, there are many, many women that can get past the sex act itself. But the real problem is where his effort has been going. As his wife sits idle, being supportive, holding down her half of the relationship, house and kids, a cheating man will put boat loads of effort into seducing the other woman: four-star restaurants and hotels, gifts, laughter, spontaneity, passion, sex. From there, it’s a sad realization for his wife that translates to 'I’m not worth the effort.' This is a fatal blow to her self-esteem and self-worth and terminal to the relationship."
So yeah. It's not necessarily what you're doing that hurts the SO. It's the fact that you're spending time, money & effort on something other than the SO. In that sense, whether or not it's sex, or a lapdance, dinner with a cute female friend, too much time at your desk at work, or whatever, is kind of immaterial to most women. It's you seeking attention from someone or something other than her.
A woman trying to communicate that might call a lapdance sex or like sex to make a poorly worded point. Just sayin'.
The article: http://www.dailydot.com/opinion/ashley-m…