As a newbie who plans to have his first lap dance soon, I've looked for good lap dance videos to see what it's like, and found very few... Mostly just grand theft auto video game clips. Anyone know where to go for real videos? I know SC's don't allow videos, but I'm sure there are some.
Looking isn't really very interesting. If she's good at it and you have thin enough pants on, it's gonna feel a hell of a lot like sex. Or does for me, anyway.
Just pick a girl who 1) you find sexy
2) is not lazy on stage.
What you might see in a video is not what you might get at your club.
Different clubs, different states have different laws and lack of law in each location.
I went to one club in Hollywood,CA where they put a gate down in front of me, the girls wore bikinis and stood 3 feet away. (never going back). Another place i went in CT (shall not name openly) just looking for a LD the girl pulled out my pecker and gave me a full on BJ!
Good Luck in your search ... and don't be cheap.
The OP is a newbie and he SCs in Utah – some slack cutting is in order :).
Most LDs; you sit on the chair or sofa or bench; and the girl sits on top of you either RCG (reverse cowgirl) or FCG (front cowgirl) and she grinds on you as is she was fucking/riding you. You can grab her tits and ass for the most part and some will let you suck the titties (you can politely ask) and some will let you touch the kitty (again politely ask).
DO NOT WEAR JEANS. Common rookie mistake. The fabric is rough for the dancer and you feel less. Try so wear soft thin slacks and very loose underwear so the snake has room to grow. I wear thin sweatpants that are black and have pockets so they almost look like regular slacks especially in a dark club – I also go commando – but I am an advanced PL :). I also like the sweatpants b/c they don’t have a zipper than can get caught on the dancer on your junior member (especially if commando).
Don’t wear a belt either – gets in the way of the grinding and in case the dancer “wants to get to know you betterâ€.
Can’t think of anything else for now but if I do I’ll repost.
Just go out there and do it, Briguy. Sometimes when you over-think things it can take the fun and spontaneity out of what should be a carefree or impulsive moment.
btw – you should ask the dancer b4 going to the LD room:
+ whether she will grind on ya for the whole song (vs air dancing half of it)
+ whether she will let you grab titties and ass for the cost of what LDs go for in that club (don’t let her give you some shit about “if you want to touch my ass and tits then it’s extra $â€)
The site Danni's Hard Drive used to have a weekly POV lapdance video. Had some good talent, too: Shauna O'Brien, Veronika Zemanova, Akira Lane, etc. A lot of those videos are now in the public domain, ahem. If you search Kowalsky Page or whatever your favorite adult video site is for "lapdance," you'll find something.
Just remember, when you actually get one in person, follow the rules of the club you're in, at least the first few times. Nothing ruins a visit like not knowing the limits and being "escorted out" by one of the bouncers (and by "escorted out," I mean a 350-pound former D3 defensive tackle will try to see how hard he has to throw you to make you skip across the pavement like a rock across a pond).
After a few trips, you'll become more Neo-like and understand how some rules can be bent and others broken.
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2) is not lazy on stage.
What you might see in a video is not what you might get at your club.
Different clubs, different states have different laws and lack of law in each location.
I went to one club in Hollywood,CA where they put a gate down in front of me, the girls wore bikinis and stood 3 feet away. (never going back). Another place i went in CT (shall not name openly) just looking for a LD the girl pulled out my pecker and gave me a full on BJ!
Good Luck in your search ... and don't be cheap.
Wait for your next birthday.
Most LDs; you sit on the chair or sofa or bench; and the girl sits on top of you either RCG (reverse cowgirl) or FCG (front cowgirl) and she grinds on you as is she was fucking/riding you. You can grab her tits and ass for the most part and some will let you suck the titties (you can politely ask) and some will let you touch the kitty (again politely ask).
DO NOT WEAR JEANS. Common rookie mistake. The fabric is rough for the dancer and you feel less. Try so wear soft thin slacks and very loose underwear so the snake has room to grow. I wear thin sweatpants that are black and have pockets so they almost look like regular slacks especially in a dark club – I also go commando – but I am an advanced PL :). I also like the sweatpants b/c they don’t have a zipper than can get caught on the dancer on your junior member (especially if commando).
Don’t wear a belt either – gets in the way of the grinding and in case the dancer “wants to get to know you betterâ€.
Can’t think of anything else for now but if I do I’ll repost.
Have a good time!!!
LOL – just busting your newbie balls
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mUteLO0l…
btw – you should ask the dancer b4 going to the LD room:
+ whether she will grind on ya for the whole song (vs air dancing half of it)
+ whether she will let you grab titties and ass for the cost of what LDs go for in that club (don’t let her give you some shit about “if you want to touch my ass and tits then it’s extra $â€)
Just remember, when you actually get one in person, follow the rules of the club you're in, at least the first few times. Nothing ruins a visit like not knowing the limits and being "escorted out" by one of the bouncers (and by "escorted out," I mean a 350-pound former D3 defensive tackle will try to see how hard he has to throw you to make you skip across the pavement like a rock across a pond).
After a few trips, you'll become more Neo-like and understand how some rules can be bent and others broken.