I don't think I've ever seen a discussion of swinging on tuscl, which surprises me. I'm thinking about it, and I'm wondering whether other tuscl members have too. Have you thought about it and rejected the idea? Suggested the idea to your wife and gotten an immediate and firm "no"? Or just not considered it at all? I've been looking at http://www.swinglifestyle.com and finding it pretty interesting.
I have a regular partner who I swing with, every week or two. She chases the bench back and forth and barks a while before jumping up to join me on the porch swing.
Several years ago I went to a swing club party with my (then) ATF and discovered that I didn't really want to trade the hottest woman in the room for somebody's dumpy wife!
TUSCL lists 4 swing clubs for Atlanta. Club Venus 2 reviews, Dirty Ratts 0 reviews, Little wings 2 reviews, & Trapeze 8 reviews. Apparently tumblingdice is into it. He asked me if I ever go and I told him the same thing that I am telling you. If I had a date with a hottie, why would I want to take her to a swingers club where I would be expected to share her?
Being the weirdo that I am, I think that ideally all relationships should be open. If two people truly love each other, having (safe) sex with third party in no way interferes (in any real way) with mutual companionship and support. In fact, I think a (game-free) marriage could work fine even if the couple never has sex with each other, only with third parties.
But in spite of all that, swinging still seems twisted to me. Swingers are not really renouncing the whole sick game of trying to own a person sexually. The fact that they "allow" their partner to be with a third party in a strange, artificial situation is just another odd way of trying to own.
In my finals days living in Illinois, my last Illinois girlfriend and her friend thought it would be cool to swap boyfriends, so I ended up banging her friend one night. I just am glad I didn't get to repeat the experience, as her friend was possibly the most overly mechanical sex partner I have had, which was too bad, because she was a much better looking girl than my girlfriend (not that I would have said that then). I think in retrospect, this was the beginning of the end with that girlfriend, although bouncing from job to job at the time probably didn't help matters much.
Yeah!But Cat you get fucked and sucked by different Hotties.If your date doesn't like the guy trying to probe her she simply puts her hand over that orifice.Plus the fact that when I sit to take a dump,it' my cock I gotta keep outta the water,not my balls.
Been to a swing club once, and it was an awesome hot time.
Babe and I enjoyed watching others have sex as well as watching them watch us have sex. No, we technically didn't "swing", but that is not required. Think of it more like where consenting adults go to have sex in front of, beside, or maybe with other people.
When "The Mystery Zone" gets added to the Houston Texas list, I'll publish a full account.
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Several years ago I went to a swing club party with my (then) ATF and discovered that I didn't really want to trade the hottest woman in the room for somebody's dumpy wife!
If I swing, it's for the chin.
But in spite of all that, swinging still seems twisted to me. Swingers are not really renouncing the whole sick game of trying to own a person sexually. The fact that they "allow" their partner to be with a third party in a strange, artificial situation is just another odd way of trying to own.
Babe and I enjoyed watching others have sex as well as watching them watch us have sex. No, we technically didn't "swing", but that is not required. Think of it more like where consenting adults go to have sex in front of, beside, or maybe with other people.
When "The Mystery Zone" gets added to the Houston Texas list, I'll publish a full account.