Ass holes, the new vagina?

shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
I always thought that men were attracted to women because they had something that we didn't, a vagina. But it seems that more and more I hear that the final goal is fucking them in the ass. Pornography goes to great lengths to depict this. I can understand why gays are into this. Obviously their sex partners don't have vaginas. So they have to have a substitute.

Are we as a whole so spoiled with the ease of getting pussy now that we have to find something else to satisfy our sex cravings?

I'm old school and I don't think that I have enough years left in me to get to that point. But like they say "To each his own".

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tumblingdice
11 years ago
Never was into it.I'm fine with the other two choices.Had some girls beg me to do it so I had to comply.Although it is a feeling of total dominance.
SlickSpic
11 years ago
Maybe for some it's the taboo aspect of anal sex that turns them on. I've been with girls who like it or are willing to try it but for me, I prefer the pussy. It's so much wetter and better. Plus, when a girl rides you cowgirl, she bucks so much better when you're in her pussy. It's designed that way.
jackslash
11 years ago
The other thing about porn that I've noticed is that the goal seems to be to cum on the woman's face. What's wrong with the mouth or pussy?
lotsoffun201
11 years ago
The ass is much tighter, and I agree with the dominance and taboo aspect of it. Some girls say the orgasm is better too. IMHO, nothing better.
dallas702
11 years ago
It appears to me: that the increased acceptance and availability of porn has had an influence on the 18 to 25 y/o girl. They apparently see so much porn, many of them believe that what they watch is "normal" and behave accordingly. It is certainly true of the clothing young women wear as the stripper/dancer/porn look is more and more often seen in public. And, if the "twerking" at the VMA is any indication, the porn/stripper behavior is also becoming acceptable in public.

With acceptance of porn comes some acceptance of "porn" sex. I do not prefer anal, but many young women seem to believe men do prefer her ass. I have even had one dancer tell me that it was her "birth control" (I didn't sample that one!)

I am guessing that anal in porn is about pushing taboos and stretching scenes, plus it is acceptable with the male actors since most of them work more "gay" porn than straight. And Jackslash, I don't think the camera can see inside either option you proposed!

I only object to the timing. When I was young, I really had to work for every piece of ass I got. Back then, I could go all night and keep going in the morning, but it took most of the night just to get past the "good girl" social requirements. I often had to work for weeks just to get into her bedroom. Now, great sex is everywhere, hot and available. And, now, I can stay up to finish round one, but round two is past my bedtime! Damn!!!
rockstar666
11 years ago
I discovered the joy of anal fairly recently and now it's a welcome addition to my repertoire. I also like a prostrate massage but it's an acquired taste for sure. I'd say about 1 out of 4 girls will do it and 1 out of 3 who do it actually like it.

Anal: It's not just for gays anymore.
SuperDude
11 years ago
Anal is becoming mainstream. Porn now features DP or double anal. (Yes, there is a difference.)
Clackport
11 years ago
"Plus, when a girl rides you cowgirl, she bucks so much better when you're in her pussy".

Well fucking said Slick!
rockstar666
11 years ago
I agree with SlickSpic but you don't do cowgirl when you do anal! Doggie works the best, as you might guess. Use lots of Astroglide and start slowly.
Clackport
11 years ago
@rockstar- I believe they call it anal cowgirl.
Corvus
11 years ago
How about anal missionary. You can look into your girls eyes while enjoying the sensation. One of my favs likes it too.
rockstar666
11 years ago
@ranukam Sounds more like a porn vid position than anything else. I've stuck with doggie, but next opportunity I'll try it.

@Corvus Yeah I'll try that too. As I said, I'm new to it, and my ATF won't do anal.
skibum609
11 years ago
My wife and I have a girlfriend who is a medical professional and word to the wise ladies as her saying about anal sex says it all: Anal now, depends later.
10inches
11 years ago
never any interested in fucking the shit hole. pussy is too good and only a few inches away.
Player11
11 years ago
No interest in anal just want pussy. Stripper pussy my fav.
Alucard
11 years ago
I believe it is strictly a matter of guys having some need to express dominance over the woman. I have NO desire to ever engage in that practice.
Corvus
11 years ago
Anal sex is not for everyone, but when a woman's eyes are filled with lust and she says, demands really " fuck my ass" it is hard to decline and a hell of a lot of fun. Some women really love it, others don't care for it at all and some are just plain scared of the thought of it and/or turned off completely by the idea.

As long as both of you are ok with it and its fun no problem. Just beware of those gals that want to return the favor!
inno123
11 years ago
I agree that porn affects a lot of this. The irony is that real life anal and porn anal are very different. More so than real life vaginal and porn vaginal. Real life anal needs to be slow, very well lubricated, and the easiest position for the woman is on her belly with her legs close together and yours outside of hers. That makes it easier for her to relax her anus. They don't show it on porn because it is hard to get a camera angle on it (as with missionary) and like all porn they want fast fast fast. It is easiest to relax the anus with the legs close together.

Then use lots of lube and go really slow. Considering the number of plain old conventional germs back there I would suggest a condom and definitely do not put it in her pussy until replacing the condom and washing. Again very different than porn anal.
txtittyfan
11 years ago
Up in the northwest, Dougster's mouth is the new vagina.
zipman68
11 years ago
Aw snap txtittyfan.
zipman68
11 years ago
I hear that the asshole (or asswhole as some here would type...) is indeed the new vagina. And DVDA is the new anal. And if you're a really twisted motherfucker you like to see girls take a drumstick of the Colonel's XXXtra KRIS-pay up the asswhole!
georgmicrodong
11 years ago
Thank you, no. Vaginas and mouths are perfectly satisfying for me.
juiicebox69
11 years ago
Line em up ! Azz fuck all dem hos !
goodsouthernboy
11 years ago
I used to be repulsed by te idea of pulling my dick out and seeing shit on the condom (don't even know if that really happens or whether it's just in my mind), but I think I've grown more curious lately. I agree with the comments on dominance.
zipman68
11 years ago
GSB my friend...not shit. Santorum. A frothy mix o' feces and lube. Unless the chick has cleaned herself out like preppin' for a colonoscopy.
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