Being rushed in VIP.

I agree with that sentiment. And only really if I had to pay the house for the time. For example at one my favorite clubs gotta pay 30 to the house for each 15 minutes. Had a dancer tell me if I got 30 minutes I would get some extras at that price flat. I figure what the hell its a deal and go in. Paid the house 60 and she's done in 10 and leaves. Hell could have saved me 30 and I would have paid the agreed amount anyway and had more to tip.

Shadow at your age you shoud bee happy you came evn if was premasur !

I was with an escort once who told me I had to fuck her without touching her with my hands. She didn't touch me with her hands either. Is that called an air fuck? Found out that hard way why she had a low rate even though she was quite pretty.

With escorts it's more often than not I have to tell them that Mr. Happy stays on the bench till later in the game. Unfortunately, that gives many of them the idea that you're looking for some deep emotional bond with them. The next time you see them, you actually have to tell them to go ahead and take their clothes off. Apparently, there are a lot of guys who want the salami hidden somewhere as quickly as possible.

Presumably you're going to pay more if you're not down with wham-bam quickies.

It happens. I don't write her off but keep her in the lineup for the rare times that I am in a hurry myself.

Maybe you could back-to-back VIPs with a hot-looking no extras dancer immediately followed by Miss Wanda Wham-bam. If it turns into a trend, it could get the Duo-dancers to stop hating on extras girls.

I understand your frustration and annoyance SC. There will always be girls with this kind of attitude. They want to make money quick but don't realize they will rarely get repeat business.

I hate it when this type of shit happens. I'll do like Lopaw and keep them in reserve but ONLY if it's an emergency. Also, whether it's at the sc or at McDonalds, put effort into your performance. If you want me to be a repeat customer then you are going to have to give me a reason to return.

Ugh just happened to me recently... Glad I'm not the only one this happens to. I find VIP is a great way to start the regular/dancer thing but every now and then there's some girl with no business sense who just takes the cash and rush the hell outta you....figure I'd be better at spotting these type of girls by now...guess not

I don't do a lot of CR's, and I'm fairly inconsistent myself wrt foreplay vs getting right down to it, but I hate cutting out with significant time left as well. To try and express that point up front I've started asking if I'm paying for time or results - just like I negotiate with my contractors. The response is usually interesting, it takes them a bit to figure it out - but most have been honest in their answer.

One other thing I'll add. While I usually use Lopaw's technique of trying to match their service offerings to my current needs I've found that some girls need a warm up. I recently did a repeat with a girl who I found smoking hot but uninspired on our first visit. The second time was a charm. I had somewhere to be, but I couldn't bring myself to rush it - I just showed up late. I suppose that's a different topic entirely, 2nd chances or not...

I dislike the wham bam thank you mam, done in 10 minute sessions.

I like a little foreplay, starting and stopping, giving direction. It leads to the most enjoyable, explosive conclusions.

It's one of my complaints with the majority of girl's BJ techniques in clubs where the club looks the other way, so there's no need to "hurry, quick". Once they start it's almost like a sprint to see how quick they can finish you. Bring me to the edge, slow down, bring me to the edge again, slow down. That's my preference and once in awhile come across a gem.

Shadowcat- I thought at first that I was going to get ripped off by this new girl, then we miscommunicated because I thought she wanted me to hurry up and cum so she could go on, but we finally got back on the same page. She made my experience worthwhile, which is always good.

Whether it is a blowjob, handjob, house remodel job, car overhaul job, whatever, anytime finishing job as quickly as possible becomes the sole/main focus, quality, and customer satisfaction suffers.

I had that happen at a special club. A girl immediately asks if I want her to suvk the swag, unexpected by the question I say yes and in several minutes I blow. And she makes me leave. Yet we had more time left. Personally when that happens, I wanna yell that we have more time left, but after busting a nut I subconsciously want to get the hell out of there.