2ND CHANCES OR...

That depends on what you want. A lot of times dancers will give better service once they get to know you better and trust you. Other times they are just a waste of time.

I used to have zero tolerance for this, but I decided to be lenient a couple of times, and both times it worked out fabulously.

Could be her time of the month? Try again in 2 weeks.

Yeah this type of thing is really a roll of the dice. Maybe give her one more shot and if it's the same thing again then cut her Louise.

Lol Louise....damn autocorrect

@3legs-Yeah, I thought about that-one of those factors.

@sclvr-cut her Louise! I like that one.

Sorry Charlie. How are the mermaids down in the murky deep?

Fool me once, shame on you.
Fool me twice, shame on me.

In that scenario I'd give her one more chance and then be done with her.

She could’ve just had a bad day – we all have those.

So if she seems like a cool person; perhaps one could give her the benefit of the doubt and give her another chance.

Also, although it may often not be obvious to us; some dancers that may not be too experienced may at least for a little while feel intimidated (even scared) when giving LDs.

I’ve actually asked dancers in the past that were “airish” if they didn’t grind – to my surprise they started being more “engaged” (grinding) after I mentioned it (most likely b/c they wanted to make that $$$). Not saying if you say something things will be better – but the power of communication should not be understated (even in a SC :)).

You're right on the money with the experience thing, Papi. She was new and fairly young(19-22), that could also play a big part.

Give her a second chance and then pass if it doesn't get better

I'd give her another shot, but I'd put her pretty low on my dance card.

The closest I've had to that was a few months ago when a 30-something fairly-new-to-the-biz dancer hit me up and I went for it. She starts dancing about 3 feet away from me and trying to do all of these sexy moves WITHOUT EVER TOUCHING ME. I stopped her about 1/2 way thru the song and told her she won't last long dancing that way. She said that since I was a girl she thought that was what girl customers wanted. Oh, silly silly child. The good news is that I gave her an on-the-spot tutorial in how she should be dancing and she was a quick study. But she still went straight to the bottom of my "to do" list.

Depends on the girl. But my standards for lap "dances" are probably lower than many here. As long as she lets me grope, she can sit there and do nothing, as far as I'm concerned.

Since I've been able to find plenty of very attractive dancers who give you their A game from dance number one, I don't bother with the ones that want to play those games. Good dancers are there to make money. For game players, it's a hostility thing about taking your money while giving you as little enjoyment as possible.