Hey, guys: need your help here. JC doesn't seem to believe me when I say a night club is a good place to meet women. I think he may respect the opinion of you old guys more. Here's a link to a post on the pink site describing his problems meeting women:
I feel sorry for the guy, please help him out, since I don't seem to be able to.
davids has now officially become an Internet stalker! Congratulations!
This is the most important thread of the day, IMO. JC strikes me as suffering from "nice guy syndrome" which may account for his dating problems. I suggest that JC start at
Does anyone else here have any advice to help him out? He is supposedly swearing off strip clubs. That may be a good start.
Who wants to help JC. I bet he is a nice enough guy in real life, even though a bit ill tempered online. Help him get a date!
"I never considered strip clubs a place to find love. I have never asked a dancer at a club out on a date or other things. Where do beautiful women like you go to find men? If this is the wrong place to ask, if you don't trust my intentions, or if I don't sound like the kind of guy you would want to meet at those places, no worries."
Dude, just for the record, a little tip on dealing with women: Never apologize for asking something that you have no reason to feel sorry for. Makes you look like a pussy with no backbone.
Drop as many pathetic undertones out of your speech as you can when dealing with women. (Ok, do a vulnerability routine maybe once before you sleep with her. Don't get carried away your main theme needs to be that you are the man and strong not that you are a pathetic loser who has to apologize for making a post and asking a legitimate question.)
How come no one is volunteering to help JC? Do you think he is a hopeless case?