Cheating
motorhead
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Mr Winkle's thread raised a question about being faithful to your S/O.
But perhaps we need to back-up and define the parameters. How do you define cheating?
Some say only vaginal intercourse is cheating. On the other extreme some feel talking with someone on Facebook might be cheating. I think it obviously falls somewhere in between.
Flirting, texting, masturbation, porn?
Going to a strip club? Getting a dance? A handjob?
Where's the line in the sand?
But perhaps we need to back-up and define the parameters. How do you define cheating?
Some say only vaginal intercourse is cheating. On the other extreme some feel talking with someone on Facebook might be cheating. I think it obviously falls somewhere in between.
Flirting, texting, masturbation, porn?
Going to a strip club? Getting a dance? A handjob?
Where's the line in the sand?
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Part of where the line in the sand is drawn is where the Spouse/S.O. decides the line belongs & also where Society decides where the line is drawn. [this relates to marriage, as there are divorce laws]
IMHO it is wrong to betray the trust placed in you by your Spouse/S.O. and to screw around.
IMHO don't marry if you need to screw around constantly or divorce. Don't enter into a committed serious relationship if you need to constantly screw around.
My 99¢ worth. I'm sure there will be a lot of flack against my opinion about Cheating/Infidelity.
WRONG imo.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gpCnH9jRc…
I stand by my POV on this issue & believe that if you BETRAY the trust placed in you physically\emotionally then you have "CHEATED" and are totally WRONG!
How about the antics of the RickyBoyDugan who is on the record as saying he "generally" will participate in BBFS when it is offered. All this despite the fact that he is married, his wife is completely in the dark and the RickyBoy is conpletely aware of the increased risk it puts his wife at for STDs and cervical cancer as caused by HPV.
So, I'm in the supermarket, I double back and to aisle 3 again to get another look at the tits on that 20-year old. My SO asks me why I went back to aisle 3, and to spare her feelings, I lie. Cheating?
"their Spouse/S.O. is NOT fulfilling some or all of their physical sexual needs/desires and their emotional needs/desires"
My SO has a shitty sense of humor. It fulfills an emotional need of mine to hang out with my male friends and act stupid. Cheating?
"Any act with a person other that your s/o without your s/o knowledge is considered cheating"
I gave the cashier money for a pack of gum. My SO doesn't know. Cheating?
My SO has a shitty sense of humor. It fulfills an emotional need of mine to hang out with my male friends and act stupid. Cheating?"
If you are physical with a dancer, yes.
Responding would also show that alutard was not supremely confident in their self-evidentiary nature, so alutard, instead, elects to just not respond, show that confidence, and know that his confidence in his own beliefs will quickly spread to any doubters.