Another question from a SC rookie: after how many LDs u can get the number of a

You don't even have to get dances to get phone numbers.

so let's put 0 in.

you half to spend a lot of $$$$$ on a stripper befor u get her number. But there arecase where a stripper will give you her number after the first dance.

Of course some dancers may like you while others may be married or have boyfriends.

How many blow jobs does a stripper have to give before she gets the number for the free clinic.

'After the first'?..... there have been a few times I've gotten numbers before any dance. But the flip side is there are some that I had dance for me for a couple years and still yet to get her number.

To the OP; every situation is different. Take the numbers when you can. What you do with them (keep, trash, write on bathroom wall, etc) is up to you.

Iff a dancer asks to meet up later without you buying anything first, that could be a real money saver. I would say that would be a great time to ask for her name and number, One dancer I met said she never hooks up if the guy asks first.

Huh?
What are you even asking?

There is zero correlation between the number of dances you purchase and the chance of getting a dancer's number.

In fact, sometimes getting too many dances in the club (and therefore spending lots of money) will decrease your chances of any OTC action, as they're already making quite a lot of money for presumably not even putting out ITC.

Numbers are exchanged between dancers and patrons either because there's a legitimate good vibe between the two people and they wish to meet up for a specific activity, or P4P action is involved. In rare cases, you could date a dancer, but that's so rare and probably impossible for many patrons. Especially if you met the dancer in the club.

That's pretty much the nature of the game. I would not say there is a given formula to it, other than putting yourself out there and having interesting topics of discussion with dancers. For me in NYC, it helps that I have connections to lots of cool underground house music parties and some other stuff closely associated with that.

To get a dancer's number legitimately, and not just for P4P action, it's not all that different from the way you'd do so at a regular nightclub. And I am not talking getting their number so they text you when they work and beg you to come in. At this point in time I'm lucky enough that none of the dancers in my phone do that.

I can get numbers from any stripper at Sahara. As soon as you book the VIP...they know you want to pay for sex...they get your number so they can text you next time they're working and the night is slow and they need your $$$. If they text 3-4 times and you don't bother coming in...they'll erase your number.

You're a $ sign. You're an ATM...thats all.

If a dancer asks for your number she might call anytime. I once had a dancer call me at 1 am asking if I could come into the club. I told her the club was an hour away and I had to get up for work at 7 am. I just met the dancer. I was surprised she called me. Probably wanted me to spend money on lap dances.

Some dancers don't like it if you tell them you'll call but you either lose their number or forget it. I never tell anyone I can remember their phone number anymore.

I can only remember two strippers who didn't give me their numbers when I asked versus a couple of hundred who did. It's very hard not to get one. "Just ask".

Be careful WHICH ones get your number or you might just have them blow up your phone....

... just one more reason to consider a HOBBY phone

In my case, you need to be a whale or provide a service I need (eg. someone who sells computer/electronics parts).

I have not really had a problem with giving a limited number of people my real number; however, if you are truly concerned about this keeping a google voice account is probably sufficient for most people.

^Yeah, google voice. I use it.

There's nothing I hate more than a stripper who's full of herself.

Most of us have Trac phones for work puposes. They are cheap and give us a way to connect with customers to let them know when we're working and to make them feel special. It's usually very easy to get numbers, just say "I'd love to see you again, why don't we exchange numbers so you can call or text when you're working." I've neve met a clean (non drug using) dancer who would give a customer her regular number. Not being a jerk, just most guys go a little nuts with the calls and texts and I've had a few try to blackmail me (saying they'll give out my number if I don't hang out with them).

^^^ Sounds like more stripperweb myths. Most girls give you their regular number. Some might have restrictions like "don't text me" or "only text me after I text you first" to work around boyfriends and husbands, but the "mainly fake/temporary phones" thing is a myth.

Three and a half is the perfect time. Don't try before then. You will appear overly anxious. Don't wait until the fourth song is over either. She will think you are too shy.

Anywhere from ZERO to 1,000,000,000 or more!

If you want it ask for it. She will probably give it to you, or pretend to be flattered and say she doesn't know you well enough yet. If she makes drama about it, she's probably already made drama about other stuff, and you can just plan on all your dances with her costing you some drama as well as money.

I'm another google voice user. I'm pretty sure my fav uses it too but I can't be certain yet. I think it's more popular than Dougster may realize. Then again we all have different experiences

Glad to see someone else calling out the "work phone" myth for strippers.

I've got an equal amount of "clean" and "dirty" stripper numbers, of the ones I've called (again equal split) exactly 1 has been a GV#. And she used it because she was always changing her regular number and customers got annoyed, so she went google for consistency. I've never been given a work only number.

As far as how many dances to get a number, its all over the road. In some clubs you can walk in and get them straight away as long as you don't give off a cop vibe. Others are less interested and may only offer it up after months of visits. Others aren't interested at all and won't give you their number period. Not surprisingly this also applies to normal girls who aren't strippers.

Zero

most will give you a number to get you to come back to see them

“… In my case, you need to be a whale or provide a service I need …”


I can take out your trash?

The LD right after you cum in your pants – that shows you really care - she’ll be impressed and just volunteer her # to you.

Lol papi chulo... dancers are always impressed with you cumming in your pants...they love getting messy grinding on your wet pants...always remember that chair

I'm sure some dancers give out their real numbers, if they don't mind having to change numbers every few weeks, but that would get old for me. Guys can be nuts and if you block them, they will give your number out to every jerk they can find, write it on bathroom stalls, post it on Backpage and Craigslist, etc. I definitely have a trac phone for work purposes, as do most of the dancers I know. It might be a regional thing (I'm in PA). I'm pretty sure, though, that most of the guys who get that number think they have my real number. That seems silly to me. Every guy who does a few dances or a room pretty much demands it (then shows it to all of their friends). That's at least 20 new guys a week who text or call a few times a week asking for naked pictures, OTC, dates, sexting, free BJs, etc. Sometimes I need to shut my work phone off to breathe for a second.

Eh, I used to have a work phone but then it became too much of a hassle. I'll give pretty much anyone my phone number if they've bought dances but with the caveat that if they text me weird shit all day I'm going to hand the phone to the nearest male and let them deal with it.

I prefer having a dancer's e-mail, move convenient for me. If I like somebody, I just want to have a way to know when they're working. Seems pretty lame to me clubs don't as a rule say who is scheduled to work when on their websites. It's not that hard to have a free and anonymous web site, I'll never understand why no dancers have these. Even the ones who are serious about not leaving easy money on the table don't have a website for their regulars.

Again, likely an "exaggeration" a la stripperweb about how customers are constantly sniveling and phoning them, acting pathetic in general, and the poor strippers just won't have time to even look up if they paid attention to the entire deluge of customer messages.

The comment about geographical difference contributing is interesting as well. I am beginning to wonder if there really may be big cultural difference between and east and west coast which work in favor of strippers on the east coast. Especially in the NE.

Out here customers willing to put up money for OTC must be quite a rarity because when I let the girls have my number about it, more likely than not they will be the ones pestering me to do some OTC all time.

Maybe the east coast is difference though, especially the NE. I can sort of see it. The NE is the financial/political heart of the country where they dream up things like collateralized debt obligation to make money and the outlook generally seems to be more flaunt your wealth, it's a dog-eat-dog world, and our paying hookers for sex is a symbol of your status (all the more so if they are hookers who happen to work in strip clubs and don't call themselves hookers).

Out here on the west coast, culturally, it is more laid back and, at the top, more about creating a successful business with some sort of technology theme - maybe a google, maybe an amazon.

So maybe there really is more customers beating down the strippers doors on the east coast, whereas out here, if they find out that you are willing to do paid OTC they are beating down our door - some phoning us time after time about it.

I would tend to think that in general dancers have a harder/rougher time dealing with customers than the other way around. Not to say that there are not some real hos that screw it up for everyone, but in general I believe there are more asshole customers/guys than dancers mistreating custies – IMO.

I believe men in general tend to more duches and perpetrate more wacky, if not illegal and/or violent acts, than females.

Also, dealing directly with the public, no matter what type of job it is (dancing; waitress; customer service; etc.); is often the toughest part of this kind of job IMO. Also, most of custies go to the SC and interact w/ the dancers maybe once a week or less; whereas dancers have to interact with the custies on a lot more regular basis - and they interact w/ a lot more of them than custies w/ dancers – thus increasing the chances of the dancer coming across some real wackos; a-holes; etc.

Just my 2 cents.

Yeah Duo, if I had your digits, I don't think I could resist the urge to text you every five minutes, begging you to let me throw just one sensor ring onto your cone.