couch dance with my kind of mileage...

Clubs don't offer DATY, Dancers do. You may not always want to accept the offer either! I've got a few regular girls who offer mutual oral in the VIP room - since it's the only place where they can get away with it. As I've mentioned before, when you start talking about overt sex acts it's really time to start thinking about a good escort. You really do get a lot more for your money.

I've gotten in a quick lick or two, but not what I would consider full on DATY. I'm sure I'd want to go that far in a lap dance even though I am a confirmed snapper lapper.

thanks for the food analogy!!

Mileage during a dance varies a lot in the same city but greatly between cities. It just depends on the club, dancer and the locally allowed practices. Houston was without a doubt Americas true Sin City where it seemed DATY was served almost like a free appetizer with every lapdance. I mean when these upscale clubs give away Sushi, clams and tacos for free they do it right. Yet in San Antonio, just down the road not only was the Y sushi bar closed but a 3 foot no mans land was established around it with armed guards and attack dogs ready that attacked at the first wiff of food. In my home town of OKC its routine in many clubs to be offered a free taste test of red snapper. I have always enjoyed the dining experience at the Y except when strings are attached or only left over tuna fish is left on the buffet line. Of course if I drink to much than my pickled herring gets me in trouble and forces me to to eat raw oysters even if strings are attached. This sure gives a whole new meaning of waking up with cotton mouth. :)

I do get pleasure out of cunnilingus (or, with an Italian girl, cunnilinguini). To me, it is a complete five sense experience. However, I find it the most intimate thing you can do with a woman, so I won't do it unless I have an emotional bond with the Y in question (unlike doggy style sex, for example, which for me requires literally zero emotional involvement).

i would say it depends more on the dancer than the club. Have had the opportunity in 3-4 different clubs in different states. Places like Showtime in Nashville, Bare Assets in Tarpon Springs etc.

I've met strippers in all kinds of places who offered it. I've never known of a club that offered DATY (except in old stories about the Businessman's Lunch at the old Melody Theatre in 70s NYC). If they did, I would think word would get around quick.