Learning curve for OTC
Lone_Wolf
Arizona
Friday, January 4, 2013 10:03 AM
In 2012 I ventured into going OTC with a few Dancers. Overall the experiences were fun and exciting but I did end up blowing a ton of cash I didn't need to due to my lack of experience.
I'll preface this by emphasizing my understanding that the foundation of these type OTC relationships is MONEY and nothing more.
Lessons learned:
There should be no assumption of what is going to happen OTC unless it is candidly, but tactfully, discussed beforehand. A "private show" to me may mean to include sex. To her, it may mean the same show she gives me in the club just alone. I've learned to be very candid/specific as to what I want OTC.
Under all circumstances, she's seeing me for money. Although, awkward, it is best to establish a fair amount that will satisfy us both before the visit. In fact, the provider always seemed more comfortable with candid negotiations versus just letting it play out.
All providers eventually hit me up for cash to help them in some real, or imaginary, emergency. The cash I gave them was never re-paid in any form including sex. A big waste of money. Be prepared, they will ask in situations that make it almost impossible to say no to. Now, when such requests are made, I tactfully ask for OTC up front.
I gave way too much personal information out at first. Now days, with just a name and face it is extremely easy to track someone down and fuck with their life. Now I use caution to what is I tell them and I use things like Google Voice to cover my tracks.
Any others I may have missed?
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