Gay Questions
jerikson40
New York
Okay, I have a couple of questions about, well, gay issues. Honest questions.
1. If gay guys are attracted to men, then why do gay guys act like women? I've never understood that.
2. The other day I'm flipping channels on the tube, and I come across a show with two young guys in a lip-lock. Making out. Daytime TV, probably a soap opera. Then they pull each others shirts off, fall down on the bed, and start making out. Now, I'm not the kind of guy who gets easily offended. Can't remember ever being offended by something on TV. But this time I felt physically repulsed. Almost wanted to blow chunks. And it occurred to me this was probably the first time I'd ever seen guys doing any sort of gay sex. And for the first time in memory, I was really offended. Not just a mental note of "oh, that's nasty", but a real negative physical reaction. Kind of like you'd expect to feel at the thought or sight of someone having sex with an animal or whatever.
Now, to my question. I've always assumed that almost all guys would have a similar reaction. But nowadays, is it, like, unacceptable to have that reaction? Don't all guys feel the same way? Are we not allowed to be offended by stuff, but everyone else can be offended by stuff they don't like? I don't get it.
1. If gay guys are attracted to men, then why do gay guys act like women? I've never understood that.
2. The other day I'm flipping channels on the tube, and I come across a show with two young guys in a lip-lock. Making out. Daytime TV, probably a soap opera. Then they pull each others shirts off, fall down on the bed, and start making out. Now, I'm not the kind of guy who gets easily offended. Can't remember ever being offended by something on TV. But this time I felt physically repulsed. Almost wanted to blow chunks. And it occurred to me this was probably the first time I'd ever seen guys doing any sort of gay sex. And for the first time in memory, I was really offended. Not just a mental note of "oh, that's nasty", but a real negative physical reaction. Kind of like you'd expect to feel at the thought or sight of someone having sex with an animal or whatever.
Now, to my question. I've always assumed that almost all guys would have a similar reaction. But nowadays, is it, like, unacceptable to have that reaction? Don't all guys feel the same way? Are we not allowed to be offended by stuff, but everyone else can be offended by stuff they don't like? I don't get it.
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Other people's sexual orientation is none of my business. I am NOT offended by their sexuality.
Never understood that either. If they want a hard dick, there are plenty of real volunteers.
So the man dressing and acting as a woman 'feels' like a woman. But, the girls who use strap-ons are more of a fantasy of 'gee I wonder what it would be like to have a penis??' and not necessarily gay.
I'll see what lopaw says...
If it's a purely physical reactions I'm not sure how "wrong" it can be. Though I think it's really more mental than you might think. As to is it wrong to be offended, that's a harder question. Is it really offensive or has society just told us it's unnatural and offensive? When the Greeks and Romans were superpowers they didn't have an issue with it.
2. I know what you mean, but the channel clicker is right there.
'What do I do about it' wasn't my question. I guess you can't answer the question I asked?
As for #1... Sexuality is biologically determined. It is not a choice. Reputable scientific studies have shown that gay male brain are much more physiologically similar to straight female brains than straight male brains. Lesbian brains are much more physiologically similar to straight male brains than straight female brains. I'm wildly oversimplifying here, but think of it as if an X chromosome and a Y chromosome swapped a chunk of DNA and ended up with a female brain with female desires etc. inside a male body. Again overly simplifying here, but really girly gay guys are just wired that way.
Of course, once you accept the scientific truth of #1, then hopefully #2 would no longer be an issue.
While I am 100% heterosexual, I am not out to bash people because of their sexual orientation. Many strippers are bi or prefer girls.
I knew of such a lesbian couple at the club but found out after I did the other one. I met Marilyn, a 20 yo blonde of German, Arabic, and Cuban extraction from Miami at a SE club where I am VIP. I fucked her several times there in VIP and once at Centerfilds. She was a really good fuck and CG with her got me off everytime. In 2011 she disappeared and I did not found out what happened until I met E. E was a hispanic blonde the same age as Marilyn. I fucked her seven times mostly itc in VIP but once Otc. She had a much tighter one than Marilyn (really tough to get in), was a squirter, but could not go as long as Marilyn so not as good a fuck. E said Marilyn had been her fiancee (but they suffered a painful breakup) and Marilyn had told me she had a Personal Financial mgr who would not let her do otc (it was E.). The weird thing is E is married and now posting shit on FB about how she loves her husband (go figure). E now dances in Tuscon, Marilyn is also out in ARiz. Both are FB friends and I keep tabs on them. I have a variety of accomplishments as a hobbyist: stripper mistress of 4 yr, seeing two girls dance at club on stage at same time I had fucked, rotating 1 stripper and 3 SA girls, and then fucking both members of a Lesbian or bi couple at different time periods 2010-2012 when going to club for variety (Marilyn and E). E was one of first gals I layed down on couch and fucked mish in VIP just pounding away.
Although like Player 11, I have done bi-sexual girls not knowing they were bi at first.
2. If they want to do that, let them. It's not like I watch that type of stuff on TV anyway.
Well, yeah, you'd think so, but in practice that ain't necessarily the case. Merely say something that offends a gay person, or a woman, or a minority, in any large company, and it's likely you'll get fired. Say the same thing on TV and all hell will break loose.
My point is that if that same soap opera had shown some guy having sex with an animal, or having sex with a little kid, or sex with a dead person, the world would come to an end and people would go insane. The show would be off the air in a heartbeat, because it's offensive to many/most people.
Now if you agree that most men are similarly offended by seeing gay sex, you would think the same rules would apply. My point is that apparently they don't apply. Try a very public complaint about them showing gay sex on TV, and you'll probably get some nasty backlash, and be labelled a homophobe.
The reason for my question is to verify if most men feel the same way.
Well, yeah, okay, that's true and fairly obvious. But that wasn't my point. For those many that do, WHY do they do it?
"And why do lesbians use strap-ons?
Never understood that either. If they want a hard dick, there are plenty of real volunteers."
Unfortunately, the lesbians I know are NOT like those stereotyped in porn, so I would never volunteer!
PS - No offense lopaw, since I don't know you. :)
Why does any male, hetero or otherwise, act effeminate? Probably a whole host of reasons from brain chemistry to environment.
Get a life you pathetic fuck. ROFL