Paying LD
joey2002
I remember several months ago. This dancer approaches me for a LD. I said sure because i was being nice, and plus I didn't get a LD in a while. So she started dancing, and all of a sudden her dancer''s friend was at the next few tables and she told me to hold a second because she want to ask her friend something. I was annoyed because I was in the middle of a song and she wanted to ask her friend something. So after about 10 to 15 seconds she came back all of a sudden the song end. Then she had the nerve to asked me do you want another dance. I politely said no. Then she said" well its $10". I pay her the $10 dollars but I was fuming because she couldn't wait until the song was over to talk to her but in the middle of while I was getting a dance. I wanted to know, what would you do or did if you were in that situation? Would you still pay her ?
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Though that got me thinking...
One thing I haven't seen yet, but fully expect to one of these days, is a dancer who has her nose buried in her cellphone and is busy texting during the lap dance. Or, more likely, a dancer who has some ear buds in her ear listening to her own music during the lap dance.
In this age of rudeness masquerading as "important cellphone business", I think it's just a matter of time.
Maybe I should tell her I don't care about the texting, just lose the gstring? Too bad its a topless no extras club lol
And for sure tell her you did not appreciate the interuption of what you had wanted to be the first of about a dozen dances with her. Very bad business on her part, but what can you expect from most strippers.
Similar thing happened to me a couple years back, getting a LD from a girl and she takes a call on her cell at the same time.
It's about respect. Respect for your customers. In the same way that it's rude and a sign of disrespect to have your nose buried in your cellphone while someone is talking to you (BTW, yes, that is rude if you weren't aware of it), having your earphones on during a dance is rude. People nowadays walk around with earphones in their ears as a normal behavior. It's also their way of saying "fuck off, I'm busy listening to my music".
Now, I'm not interested in talking to a dancer during a dance. However, if she talks nasty in my ear and smiles and is nice to me, that will result in a bigger tip. If she is staring off in the distance, while listening to Lady Gaga on her headphones, she can kiss any tip goodbye.
Personally, I find it almost mind boggling that you have to actually explain that to someone, but I guess it is what it is.
As a dancer, your job is to make me happy. If you make me happy then I will make you happy by paying you very well. If I feel like I have been robbed, then I will pay you what you are owed, nothing more and I will tell others who may visit the club who to avoid.