Haha. You know I haven't been to a strip club in a minute. Reason being, I got sick of strip clubs because to me they're nothing more than a money grub and most likely you will be going home with blue balls. Lol. I started trying the backpage escort thing. I used to always see that section on backpage and always thought it was bullsh!t. I decided to give it a try one day and although it was a God awful experience it was legit. Some women on there are scam artist with fake pics and such but there really are women on there selling nookie for $100 or less. Lol. You gotta watch it though cause some girls are nothing but rip offs. Anybody else ever try this as well. What is your experience on message with women on backpage?
I have had about 3 different girls from backpage. The key is to make sure they have reviews before seeing them. Find them on backpage and then go to either naughtyreviews.com or theeroticreview.com. If these girls are legit they should have some reviews on one of these sites or others like them. I would be very skeptical of a girl on backpage without any reviews.
You know the 1st time I did it, was with a girl with no reviews. It was God awful. This b!tch looked like a chicken head. She was a chicken head. Over the phone she told me she was staying in a hotel by the airport. When I got there it was a good ways past the airport and it wasn't a hotel, it was a motel. And a ran down one at that, with a hole in the wall by the door. When she opened the door I was disgusted. Nasty looking tramp with a chipped front tooth. I still went through with it anyways cause I was backed up and needed a quick release. The experience was terrible. The girl kept pulling on my cock and her vag was terrible. Nasty looking slut.
I did it a few more times after that and got varying outcomes. Nothing as worse as the 1st one though.
In places where independent outcall is legal, like Canada, the backpage content, like other free newsstand papers, is reliable. In places where it is not legal it can be chancy.
Some rules.
Real pictures are mandatory.
If the pictures avoid a certain part of her anatomy don't expect much of the rest. If the pictures are always from behind the breasts are likely unimpressive. If they never show below the waist expect a bubble butt.
If the ad intimates that the girl might be underage it is a law enforcement scam. I am not saying that there are no underage ones, but any one that is real and says so would be immediately removed.
Going with a girl that has a history of ads with the same or similar pictures is likely to be legit. Reviews are also a good sign.
If you don't like what you see at the door, don't enter.
I have used BP for a few single and double dates. Yes, the ladies are not the greatest but you wouldn't expect a "10" to advertising there. I found one lady who was comfortable talking about the hobby and I asked her a few questions. Her thoughts: finding the advertisers on BP on other sites is a good idea. Those mentioned above are good, adultsearch as well. She suggested eccie. I have looked at eccie but not booked anything through it. She also suggested that I (we) use good judgement. If it looks shifty, it probably is. Don't believe everything you read there. I asked if there was anyway to be sure that I (we) could be sure I (we) would get what was advertised or that the date would be 100% safe. Her answer was no, just use common sense. So there is always some risk there. It is always heartening to realize that the "Golden Rule" that works sometimes out in the real world, works really well in this world. Treat them nice and you will (almost) always have a good time.
I know eight former or present Seattle dancers who are now escorting or have in the past. Some of those I would recommend to others if asked. Some of them advertise on Backpage. Some on other escort websites.
I prefer the SC route to get nookie. Although there are times when the money seems wasted, the SC is the perfect chance for me to "interview" the girl in person. I always buy a couple of drinks for girls I like and if she passes the gabfest, I put the OTC sell on. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't. The money spend is not always efficient, but I have at least a decent chance of a good OTC session since I know something about the girl.
A lot depends on a guy's interviewing skills and BS antenna. However, I would not hire someone sight unseen and I treat nookie the same way.
Meh. Backpage is the online equivalent of the cantina scene in Star Wars. There are ways to reduce the risk (many posted above), but it has no appeal to me.
If a guy is going to jump from strippers (arguably the most beautiful women in the sex industry) to escorts, I always wonder how the first thing that comes to mind is backpage. Is it something like, "Well, I'm already in the filthiest dive club, I got the skankiest cheapest girl, and I'm going to get a cramped BJ on a couch that 600 guys have already splooged on ... and yet, somehow I STILL FEEL TOO CLASSY. Is there some way to switch to escorts but not be so fancy?"
I get it that bottomfeeder customers will be looking for bottom-shelf girls and experiences, and that's fine -- if that's the experience you're going for, that's great. But if you're looking for anything other than bottomfeeder experiences, "anywhere but backpage" is where you should start your research.
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I did it a few more times after that and got varying outcomes. Nothing as worse as the 1st one though.
Some rules.
Real pictures are mandatory.
If the pictures avoid a certain part of her anatomy don't expect much of the rest. If the pictures are always from behind the breasts are likely unimpressive. If they never show below the waist expect a bubble butt.
If the ad intimates that the girl might be underage it is a law enforcement scam. I am not saying that there are no underage ones, but any one that is real and says so would be immediately removed.
Going with a girl that has a history of ads with the same or similar pictures is likely to be legit. Reviews are also a good sign.
If you don't like what you see at the door, don't enter.
Also check out USA sex guide site. It has free reviews on backpage girls and street walkers in most major cities.
A lot depends on a guy's interviewing skills and BS antenna. However, I would not hire someone sight unseen and I treat nookie the same way.
That is so cool.
However, if you find someone good, make sure you keep using them as it is much safer
And I was very closely involved with the people behind the scene in RedBook AAMPs ( Apartment Asian Massage Parlors, like an escort incalls service )
But many here believe that it is better to meet and select your girl from a f2f first meeting. Hence strip clubs.
I agree fully.
SJG
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I get it that bottomfeeder customers will be looking for bottom-shelf girls and experiences, and that's fine -- if that's the experience you're going for, that's great. But if you're looking for anything other than bottomfeeder experiences, "anywhere but backpage" is where you should start your research.