An arrangement....
travelguy10
Ok, so I was talking to my new fav last friday in the club. We have done OTC twice already, including a 3some with her gf. She is a hot little 23 year old and seems to dig my 49 year old ass. We had already discussed stopping or curtailing our ITC in favor of OTC.
So, last friday she told me that she prefered to come to an arrangement instead of a strictly pay for play OTC situation. What she proposed was that I pay her cell bill ($150/month) and her car payment ($250/month)and I could come by at LEAST twice a week and have fun. She further stated that she was extremely bad with money (no, a stripper bad with money?) and that she didnt want the money from me, just for me to pay these 2 bills. In addition, when I came by, just bring something to drink and maybe $20 for gas.
So, for $400/month I can go get crazy twice a week which is WAY less than I am spending on ITC right now.
On a technical note, does this arrangement change our play from OTC to sugar daddy?
The only downsides that I see, as I am very satisfied with her sexually, is jealosy in the club. She might start to see us as somewhat exclusive, I will talk to her about that.
So guys, what say you?
So, last friday she told me that she prefered to come to an arrangement instead of a strictly pay for play OTC situation. What she proposed was that I pay her cell bill ($150/month) and her car payment ($250/month)and I could come by at LEAST twice a week and have fun. She further stated that she was extremely bad with money (no, a stripper bad with money?) and that she didnt want the money from me, just for me to pay these 2 bills. In addition, when I came by, just bring something to drink and maybe $20 for gas.
So, for $400/month I can go get crazy twice a week which is WAY less than I am spending on ITC right now.
On a technical note, does this arrangement change our play from OTC to sugar daddy?
The only downsides that I see, as I am very satisfied with her sexually, is jealosy in the club. She might start to see us as somewhat exclusive, I will talk to her about that.
So guys, what say you?
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I don't think this makes you a sugar daddy. To me a sugar daddy is a rich older man who showers gifts and money on a young woman. You're just a dude who got a good deal.
If you pay first, you may end up being left holding the bag.
And yeah, that definitely puts you in the sugar daddy category. :)
That's KEY!
BTW - $150 cell bill???
Yes they can be that amount.
No names to her account holders. Pay cash or money order only.
As far as authorization to pay: No company cares who pays as long as it is paid. Why would you care to inquire about her accounts. To much information is a bad thing. You are not her father/baby daddy or husband access to her accounts is to deep at this point.
She knows your (real) name?
I got a bad feeling about this...
I got a bad feeling about this..."
My ATF knows my real name & I know hers. :)
You are a braver man than I,
also a little less married, lol
They all know my real name and I know theirs.
Paying her bills is the best and cheapest way to get a SB.
Do not give the utilities your name for any reason (no need too).
Pay her bills by cash or money orders.
Communication is key! Make sure you both agree that you can walk away at anytime.
If you're a Daddy be prepared for her to maybe want gifts.
Be sure you both set your limits.
I don't know if your getting a one pop shot twice a week or extended time. If she's just coming over and getting you off and no personal time. It's really an arrangement. If she's staying the night, you're going to dinner, drinks, movies, etc... Then you have become a Daddy!
Either way you look at it, it's a great a deal.
But seriously, understand what you're getting and what the arrangement will be. For example, what is the arrangement the week she's on her period? How are you going to react when you get full access to her phone bill and find out she's banging 10 other guys?
"BTW - $150 cell bill???"
I really don't see how. My TWO phones are less than $60, and I never go over the minutes. I guess if she never hung up, she might get to that, but even then, every month?
I've known dancers who didn't have a home phone (landline) or computer/home internet, so their cell is their life line.
They need a plan with unlimited minutes/texts and lots of data (for email, Facebook, etc.). The real killer is data.
Now were are at a different level. When he mentioned "cell", I think of phone since that is what I have and use. Land line is only for the computer. If he meant text, data, and everything other than phone, I can see where it could be costly.
No, she does not know my last name but she has my cell number so with Google, she can find out.
I agree with the suggestion of money orders for all payments. I don't want to pay from my joint account with my SO.
As to the sessions so far, she actually had me come to her house and asked me if she could draw it out. We actually talked and teased each other for an hour before multipop really hot sex. The second was a 4 hour session with her gf. She also alluded that if I just wanted a quick bj, it was ok with her.
Again guys, thanks for all the suggestions!
See GMD's primer on Goggle voice, it's here on TUSCL somewhere. Very usual for staying anonymous.
Not that I would know anything about that personally, of course.
Anyway, just a few words as my opinion:
Good deal! Fuck that whore!
@Clubber: it's easy to have a $150 cell phone bill.
AT&T
2 iPhones
700 minutes a month $60
Unlimited data $60
Unlimited texts $20
$15 in taxes
If you are not hiding anything a paper trail is no big deal. However, I would be very leery about paying with anything that gave her much info on you at all. Checks have name, address and phone on them. They also have your bank account and routing number which can, and has, been used to set up auto payments on other things. Also, if you agree to paying the "phone bill" what happens if she racks up overage charges? Does she expect you to pay those too since they are part of the "phone bill?" Same if her rent goes up .... I would set a dollar amount and simply say, "Here is the amount we agreed on. I will teach you to manage your money if you want but you need to do this yourself. What you pay with it is up to you."
What I wanna know is, if you have a significant other why you need sex with this woman twice a week? Get yourself a new SO!
mrs m00tpoint
Quite a VALID point! The story I keep seeing is a NEED for variety. Just avoid Significant Others & be a "Free" Hunter 100% of the time. There's the variety. LOL
I'll freely admit that I'm shallow, but I'm not *so* shallow that I'm gonna dump my wide because she doesn't want to have sex. Sex wasn't the reason we married, and it sure as hell isn't a reason to kick her to the curb.
"Get yourself a new SO!"
Ah, that would cost a lot more than $400/month, lol