Who makes the rules?
My wife and I have recently begun to dab in the SC world as a couple. One thing we haven't been able to get a straight answer for is “who makes the rules?†For instance, at one SC we were allowed to touch the dancer, pretty much anywhere. The next SC we were not. Are these “rules†mandated by state/local laws, are they set forth by the SC management or are they strictly up to the dancer?
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Generally what you'll find is a general range of mileage within each establishment, since the clubs themselves have reputations and the girls tend to work where they're comfortable. For example, a lot of the time the truly gorgeous ones will go to the nicest clubs where it's the most conservative rules because they know they can still make money. The more used up ones can often be found in the total dives where the back corners are petri dishes. Sometimes they break the molds though, a true stunner who works in one of the divier/ higher mileage clubs can make a truly astounding amount of money if she doesn't particularly care who touches her or where.
Just keep going out to different places and you'll pick up on it real fast.
The best thing to do is treat every club and dancer as unique. Ask the dancer what she allows before paying. If all the dancers say the same thing, it's likely the club is strictly enforcing it's own rules or the law. If you get different answers, the buffet is open.
I personally would not like it if everyone who ever jay walked got arrested for doing so or if you got arrested if you got a bj in your own house. We have too many laws. We're breaking them all the time.
Nice to know someone else has a similar OPINION about Fidelity/Infidelity.
Well that certainly helps in getting "Friendly" rules!
Heh, I use the same line whenever I visit a new club:
"I'm new here, what are the rules, and can I break them?"
The state has laws against how nude the women can get and what can happen in establishments that serve liquor versus ones that don't. The states all have laws against prostitution in clubs other than very few legal brothels in Nevada.
However, the management of each club will determine how strictly they monitor dancers and customers while they are in the club. Most clubs tell the dancers the "rules" and then give them a wink and leave it up to the dancer as to what she wants to do. If the dancer gets busted, the club will say they told her (or posted) the rules so it's not their fault. Other clubs, the bouncers are keeping a close eye on what is going on and will take an active role in making sure the club rules line up closely with the state laws.
That being said, in almost every club I've been to...the dancers set their own rules. I've seen clubs where the patrons were only allowed to touch the dancers on their butt and legs...but there was a guy in the corner with his shirt off. I've been to clubs that offer full nude dances and the stripper I chose simply says she doesn't take her bottoms off. I've gotten lap dances from strippers and asked for sexual favors and had them tell me they don't do that...but they could tell me what dancers do.
Most of the clubs will "know" what their dancers are doing. They put up curtains for a reason...bouncers get tipped to turn a blind eye...and the club gets a cut of dances in those "private areas".
I've found that the clubs in college towns with younger girls working...the rules are fairly strict and uniformly enforced. The clubs near airports or in the middle of nowhere...things are a bit "loose". I've found Canadian clubs to be a bit more strict compared to some American clubs...but there are no hard, fast rules.
Best way to know what is allowed...simply ask the dancer. They want you to enjoy yourself so they'll let you go as far as allowed.
I do agree that dancers often set their own rules, but sometimes, they seem to set them in a direction that's more strict than the club's rules, which can be highly annoying. I know at one club I go to, some of the dancers refuse to do the nude room, and some of them even refuse to do the topless touch room. OTOH, I've been to clubs where they set them to be less strict, and those are the fun places.
Yeah, you and "Policeman" lol