a different one because you invested too much of yourself (meaning emotionally) in her and prefer to remain distant is that a plus, a minus or none of the above? It came up yesterday when I was with someone amazingly soft and delicate and I remarked she reminded me of this other gal whom I hope never to see again. I didn't have anything negative to say but did say I got invested too much and don't wanna experience sumpin like that again.
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Huge: Once again, I find it nearly impossible to tell what you're describing and what you're asking about it. Are you asking how to tell a stripper you're not interested in spite of her attractiveness, because she reminds you of another stripper who broke your heart?
If that's what you're asking, I think you're likely to wind up annoying her by trying to explain all that. You're better off simply telling her no thanks. In a strip club, there should be no need whatsoever to explain why.
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