I all my years of strip clubbing I have only given my phone number to 3 dancers. They had gained my trust and I was sure that their interest was more than just the money.
I occasionally have strippers ask me for my number so that "we can just talk". Much as I would like that. I am not stupid enough to belive it. But some of them give me great dances, etc and I want to continue seeing them ITC.
So what is a sure fire way of saying no without pissing them off. So far I have used "sorry I don't know you well enough" and offered my TUSCL email address instead. Emails are easy to ignore, if you choose. But not all stripper have computers.


I don't bother with an excuse. I either give it to them, or say something on the order of "No thanks."
On the other hand, since I use Google Voice, I tend to give it out to almost everyone who interests me. If they later turn out to be pests, leeches or other undesireables, I just tag their number as spam, and I never have to worry about it again. They get a "number not connected" message.