Excuses for not giving a stripper your phone number.
shadowcat
Atlanta suburb
I all my years of strip clubbing I have only given my phone number to 3 dancers. They had gained my trust and I was sure that their interest was more than just the money.
I occasionally have strippers ask me for my number so that "we can just talk". Much as I would like that. I am not stupid enough to belive it. But some of them give me great dances, etc and I want to continue seeing them ITC.
So what is a sure fire way of saying no without pissing them off. So far I have used "sorry I don't know you well enough" and offered my TUSCL email address instead. Emails are easy to ignore, if you choose. But not all stripper have computers.
I occasionally have strippers ask me for my number so that "we can just talk". Much as I would like that. I am not stupid enough to belive it. But some of them give me great dances, etc and I want to continue seeing them ITC.
So what is a sure fire way of saying no without pissing them off. So far I have used "sorry I don't know you well enough" and offered my TUSCL email address instead. Emails are easy to ignore, if you choose. But not all stripper have computers.
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On the other hand, since I use Google Voice, I tend to give it out to almost everyone who interests me. If they later turn out to be pests, leeches or other undesireables, I just tag their number as spam, and I never have to worry about it again. They get a "number not connected" message.
I can choose to give them a cell phone # with the same reasoning but if I don't want to do that, and since I am an older guy, I can always plead technophobia.
One time a dancer asked me for my number when I know I didn't want that particular dancer to contact me, I just said, "Oh, enough dancers already have my number." I turned my head and walked away. Maybe I offended her, but in this business/hobby, you're damned if you do and damned if you don't many times. As a part of club-going, you're going to offend some people, some of the time--just like declining a dancer's request that you buy dances from her.
Do You and what else do you expect in these cases?
They pretend to want to just talk while only want Sex or what?
If they just want your money they surely will continue taking it without your number.
I have about ten customer numbers that I have kept. Only one uses Google voice. The others are single or they.specifically tell me not to call them unless they text and say its ok. They are married or have s.o.'s. I don't think any dancer that cares about her business wants to step on anyone's toes. I'd never intentionally screw up a personal life of anyone. That might screw me.
Best BR wall writing ever was on the wall of the old Vic in Salida - over the urinals -
Scrawled and barely legible: "I fucked your Mother" and underneath it in beautiful script: "Go home Dad, you're drunk."