the perils of 'keeping in touch'
sanitago
Florida
A while back, one of the women I know who dances in a club suggested we trade email addresses and link up on Facebook so we could 'stay in touch'. She made the hint that, if things worked out, this could lead to some further "interaction" of a sexual nature. So, thinking no doubt with the wrong head, I decided to go ahead with it. Things did not go well from the start. She'd ask me to write, and I would, while her replies were infrequent and short at the best of times. The Facebook link-up took forever for her to accept. When it finally did get set up, one of the first things I found out was that the husband she'd told me she was separated from, she was still living with. Then she started asking me why I was talking to other dancers, why I wanted to talk to them. Finally, she tried to lay down an ultimatum: either I spend my time and money when I'm at the club with her, or she wouldn't be communicating with me.
I think she was actually shocked when I told her where to get off at.
The moral of the story, fellow clubbers, is that it's nice to think they want you, just remember what they really want is your money, and if you give them the chance, they'll hound you even when your not in the club.
I think she was actually shocked when I told her where to get off at.
The moral of the story, fellow clubbers, is that it's nice to think they want you, just remember what they really want is your money, and if you give them the chance, they'll hound you even when your not in the club.
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yeah, well, I'd hoped it wouldn't end up in some sort of drama showdown, but like a lot of hopes in life, that one when down in flames.
CTQWERTY,
I thought the same thing when she asked me to hook up with her online (FYI, if you remember her, it's J, the tallish brunette who claims to be from Naperville). not what happened, so I figured I'd pass the sorry story on to give guys a chance to learn from other's mistakes.
yeah, she's one of the ones complaining loudest about the new owners and their plans. seems she figures she's a "senior" dancer, and shouldn't have to "put up with this shit" as she put it. as to why she's still there, well, I found out she was still living with her husband when I "friend-ed" her on Facebook by using her email address. it came back with two pages, one for her and him and one for just her. did a check for him and found he had his own page where he lists his occupation as "biker", so my guess is she's making the money and taking it home to him. as to why i went down that path, what can I say, every once in a while the 'little head' outshouts the big one, and she was hinting hard that sex would be in the future. she's still fairly good-looking, and if the shit hadn't hit the fan, I'd have happily parted with some coin for a few hours of sweaty pleasure.
Two weeks later I go back to the club and she is working. She sees me and tries to act all like I came back to just see her, etc. I play her game back on her. I pretend I have no clue who she is, like we've never met before. I proceed to have fun dropping lots 'o' cash on other dancers and make sure she sees me doing it. You should have seen the look on her face!
yeah, I keep about six open email accounts. mostly this is due to the occasional need to give an address to some site I know will proceed to bombard me with advertising. I also have a couple I give out to some of the 'by the hour' women I occasionally see. one or two of them keep in touch with me semi-regularly, but none of them have given me level of possessive shit I got of the woman I speak of in the post. I keep a 'burner' phone for setting up meetings with the hourly women, something I learned about years ago. bought for cash, hours paid for the same way, registered under a name in no way connected to me. figure if the cops ever bust one of them and finds my number, if they can trace me out from it, they've earned their pay.