Now for the men who spend OTC quality time with a dancer, what makes you seek out time with a dancer OTC as opposed to just searching on a site such as backpage for an escort? Don't give me the challenge bit because any dancer is willing to do OTC for the right price.
The big thing is that in the strip clubs you can screen out a large number of girls *in person* before deciding who you want to do OTC with. That beats doing it online, IMO, based just on their ads or reviews from others. Part of it is that there is less cost if you don't like the girl to begin with, or maybe decide she is not for you after one dance. Compare that to an escort. I doubt if you wanted to back out of an appointment a few minutes in you would get a refund.
I agree with george's post. Better to check out the merchandise in person than to rely on pictures posted on sites like backpage that can often be misleading, and of low quality.
If you want a really hot girl an escort is your best bet, you know what the price is. A really hot stripper screens her cutomers and will go to the highest bidder.
Where are you coming up with this BS mike? $300 should be plenty to land you the hottest strippers. This ain't the 90's early 00's anymore. Get with the recession, man!
The escorts, which I've used EROS (you can go to www.eros-[city name].com for most major cities in the country) in Chicago, Atlanta and Houston. The downside to the escorts is the risk involved. Everytime, it seemed there was the possibility that there would be a room full of cops down the hall, and they'd be storming my room as soon as the transaction went down (and before SHE did!). That really took the enjoyment out of it! Another downside is the amount of time that you can spend with them. An hour, or maybe two at best. Unless you pay more, it was pretty much one SOG (shot on goal) and believe me, they try to make that shot happen as fast as possible. If you'd arranged for an hour, and completed before the hour was up, she was gone!
Admittedly, it's pretty fun going through the website shopping, and picking out who is going to come and play, BUT, even though they say the pics are real, I am not convinced the girls showing up are the same girls in the pics, usually not nearly as hot as pics showed.
With the Stripper OTC play, it's a much more relaxed time. There is always a rapport that has already been established (or she wouldn't be there), so you know you have some "chemistry" or at least a good enough connection that you can have some conversation and fun (before, during and after "The Event"). I enjoy the company of a gorgeous girl, so the longer we spend together, the better. It usually starts with dinner, then maybe a photo session (TRY TO get an escort to agree to THAT!). Usually multiple SOGs.
Most of the dancers that I've OTCed with, I'd consider to be friends with, which to me makes the time more enjoyable. I always try to make it fun for her, too, and have plenty of her favorite drink, music, etc.
I would agree with George. Another thing is escorts can be fucked out as they probably service a higher volume of clients.
I have been seeing a dancer on reg basis I met at SC over 2 years ago. This has been both itc and otc sex. It has been great, but she is that special kinda keeper gal. I just have no desire to start at square one with a complete stranger. In a strip club you can sample what your gonna get with lap dances and then get her otc if not itc. At SE Houston SC club where I am vip extras are available itc no prob.
There is no way an escort does as many client as an OTC stripper. Think about it: an OTC strippers can go through several customers an hour. An escort maybe one or two, but there will be plenty of down time in between waiting for the next one to arrive. Since the charge is usually per dance, I doubt most customers are going to be that interested in taking their time either.
I'm in San Diego, Dougster, young hot blondes strippers are spoiled, its not bs. Yeah I've had less than escort price offers from dancers but they are not hot. I guess it depends on what we think is hot. the girl in my pic is a 300 escort from four years ago. The dancers I pursue don't think much of that,maybe they are playing me.
Gatorfan, some escorts will also rob you as well, I know only too well from personal experience, sadly!! If I ever catch her i'll punch her fucking lights out.
Mark, some would say any girl has a price but I'd beg to differ. I am not a millionaire (yet) but I know of some girls that turn down a shit load more than I can ever offer. I think some girls draw a line in the sand and NEVER cross it.
There is one big difference, escorts start watching clock as soon as u meet them but with stripper u know them from the club and become friend so they do not care about time much that makes a big difference.
I've done both and find the escort option just isn't as much fun. Aside from the aforementioned "see...try...negotiate" benefits, it's a more personal process and a greater sense of satisfaction getting to know a stripper/dancer and then moving on to the OTC level.
Not the better ones golf123, there are many I have met that give a superb service and never clock watch, these tend to be the more expensive type of girl. Having said that i'd agree with your statement in 80% of the bookings i've had. The OTC's I have had over there have been at least 2-4 hours.
While I've never done the escort thing, I will add to my list the one londonguy mentions above. Almost all of the dancers I've met OTC over the years have consented to sticking around for at least a couple of hours. Sometimes for just talk, and sometimes for a second round. Very few were rushed affairs.
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The big thing is that in the strip clubs you can screen out a large number of girls *in person* before deciding who you want to do OTC with. That beats doing it online, IMO, based just on their ads or reviews from others. Part of it is that there is less cost if you don't like the girl to begin with, or maybe decide she is not for you after one dance. Compare that to an escort. I doubt if you wanted to back out of an appointment a few minutes in you would get a refund.
I do agree that nearly all strippers will do OTC.
Maybe in a past era, but these days it seems to just be a matter of asking.
The escorts, which I've used EROS (you can go to www.eros-[city name].com for most major cities in the country) in Chicago, Atlanta and Houston. The downside to the escorts is the risk involved. Everytime, it seemed there was the possibility that there would be a room full of cops down the hall, and they'd be storming my room as soon as the transaction went down (and before SHE did!). That really took the enjoyment out of it! Another downside is the amount of time that you can spend with them. An hour, or maybe two at best. Unless you pay more, it was pretty much one SOG (shot on goal) and believe me, they try to make that shot happen as fast as possible. If you'd arranged for an hour, and completed before the hour was up, she was gone!
Admittedly, it's pretty fun going through the website shopping, and picking out who is going to come and play, BUT, even though they say the pics are real, I am not convinced the girls showing up are the same girls in the pics, usually not nearly as hot as pics showed.
With the Stripper OTC play, it's a much more relaxed time. There is always a rapport that has already been established (or she wouldn't be there), so you know you have some "chemistry" or at least a good enough connection that you can have some conversation and fun (before, during and after "The Event"). I enjoy the company of a gorgeous girl, so the longer we spend together, the better. It usually starts with dinner, then maybe a photo session (TRY TO get an escort to agree to THAT!). Usually multiple SOGs.
Most of the dancers that I've OTCed with, I'd consider to be friends with, which to me makes the time more enjoyable. I always try to make it fun for her, too, and have plenty of her favorite drink, music, etc.
To me, it's a not brainer.. OTC with a dancer!
I have been seeing a dancer on reg basis I met at SC over 2 years ago. This has been both itc and otc sex. It has been great, but she is that special kinda keeper gal. I just have no desire to start at square one with a complete stranger. In a strip club you can sample what your gonna get with lap dances and then get her otc if not itc. At SE Houston SC club where I am vip extras are available itc no prob.
Strippers who do OTC only will, indeed, likely have much less miles on them than your average escort.