Las Vegas VIP rooms

Hey all, I've been a long time reviewer but have not taken advantage of the discussion board so pleas excuse my lack of posts. My question is what strip club in Vegas has the best set up for getting a bit more play than just regular dances. I went to the OG during the day several months back and had a girl tell me she wanted to f*** me and she we should go to VIP. She gave me a kiss too to convince me during a 20 dance. When we went back and I gave the cashier the money for dance and drinks, the dancer gave me a hug and told me thank you for paying for her kids daycare! Wtf?!? Those are words a guy going to VIP never wants to hear. We go a dark corner and I tell her we shouldn't have sex. She says "that doesn't mean I can't get you off, right?" I say you are exactly correct. She gives me several dances with nothing special happening and eventually the attendant comes by. I thought it might be a five minute warning since we had unfinished business, but nope, times up! I still smiled leaving knowing I was had but I guess it was cool to make out with a stripper. Has anyone else had similar things happen? I'm a VIP novice but not a stripclub novice of any sort. Was I supposed to make the move to undo my pants? From my perspective I'd be liable to be called a pervert and thrown out.