Admittedly, most of my spending nowadays has been with OTC Gal I have been seeing a little over two years. I met her at SC where I was VIP (our first session was ITC in VIP). She is really good at what she gives and is a keeper. Plus POP has come down a lot.
This has not entirely kept me away strip clubs but has greatly reduced my spending there. Anyone have similar conflicts?
I don't stay away, but like you, I spend less at the clubs when my ATF is in town. Especially now that I've settled in here, the clubs are more and more placs to meet the girls who are willing to take it outside, rather than destinations in and of themselves. A few lap dances and an occasional VIP to confirm ability and willingness, and then it's off to a hotel.
Good to see POP coming down for you.
As for strip club spending vs escort spending, I prefer the atmosphere strip clubs have to offer so most of my spending is done with strip clubs.
Player, for me that is exactly the problem with spending lots of time with one girl OTC. I like variety, so I tend to frequently rotate my OTC girls. Also, for me shopping is part of the fun so I would not enjoy spending so much of my time with one OTC girl that my club activities were significantly reduced.
As I've stated on here before, my problem now in many of the clubs I frequent is that girls that I see OTC try to assume ownership when I am in their clubs. Haven't figured out a great solution to this quandry yet.
I like hunting in SCs but I much prefer the comfort of a nice hotel room for the deed itself. I still shudder at the miserable facilities I have seen for ITC fun at some of the clubs I have visited.
I think it only takes away from strip clubs if you stop going for whatever reason.
I never noticed a problem except if the dancer I was seeing OTC wanted to hog all my time and watch me all the time I was in the club. I never expected that but it did happen before. The other thing I wasn't expecting was that the dancer I saw OTC must have been talking. I had other dancers approaching me a couple of times wanting to do encounters away from the club. I don't know if one dancer said something or if it was just coincidence at that time. After I stopped seeing that dancer and stopped seeing any dancer I only had one girl approach me from out of the blue wanting to meet up with me for sex. It's a bit strange to meet a dancer that wants to have sex and tells you so in the first sentence or two out of her mouth when you first meet her. I must be out of shape, I haven't had that happen in a long time now. Although I did have one dancer I met recently telling me several times that she wanted to rape me. I think she was just flirting.
I guess if you're seeing a dancer OTC, there is a much greater tendency for her to sit with you and that will keep other dancers away and cut down your spending. Plus if you can get something for free away from the club, why do you want to spend a lot on dances in the club? I guess if you only want to drink and have fun in the club and skip the sex with the one dancer, or want to hook up with another dancer instead, you might spend money in the club.
When my ATF was dancing at the club, I would go there to see her and do her itc sometimes. This would usually be a Saturday shortly after the club opened at noon. There usually have been a session earlier in the week for say $150 and then she would text me to see her at club for $100 in CR. Once the deed was done I was usually out of there but sometimes would grab a bite from the buffet. She would sit with me but would wander off to hustle customers (for dances). I sometimes would do other gals itc in the club if she was out of town or I knew she was not working. I do not recommend this (banging more than one gal at a club), but sometimes temptation for different stuff was just too much. Besides she is married, I have seen her take other men into CR (or leave CR with one), and she has mentioned another client or two. I do not press her about other partners as the sex remains good and the pussy is tight. I do not believe she has anywhere near the partners a BP.com callgirl would.
if i'm getting more, for free, otc than paying for itc, the choice is very easy ;)
