Dancers' sexual orientation
georgmicrodong
Just a fat, creepy old pervert.
Roughly half of the dancers I've met claim to be bi-sexual (and that's just the ones who volunteered the information, while I've only met two dancers who claimed to be exclusively lesbian. Difficult to prove in either case, as, to a certain extent, enthusiasm can be faked, and "I don't do guys" is certainly a good excuse for not providing extra service.
Does this jibe with your experience? I'd be curious to know of that percentage reflects the actual, whatever is reported elsewhere, proportion of bi women in society at large, or whether stripping just attracts bi women, or if something about stripping brings out a latent interest that would never have been triggered had they not started dancing. Not that I think there's any way to definitively prove any of those.
Does this jibe with your experience? I'd be curious to know of that percentage reflects the actual, whatever is reported elsewhere, proportion of bi women in society at large, or whether stripping just attracts bi women, or if something about stripping brings out a latent interest that would never have been triggered had they not started dancing. Not that I think there's any way to definitively prove any of those.
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There are exceptions. Foxy was openly BI. She was married. I witnessed her with a girl wearing an army uniform. They were drinking and tipping the stage dancers. That led to a lot of kissing and then they started groping each other. I pointed them out to a dancer I was sitting with. It was so common place that she knew the the army girls name. Foxy also had the hots for Ella, another dancer. Ella had sent me pictures of herself(see my page). I printed them and gave them to Foxy. I was told that she had then glued to the inside of her locker.
Ever notice how women will compliment each other? If men did that to each other they would be labeled as GAY.
I'm ok with BI as long as they treat me as a man.
One day she pointed out a new dancer and claimed to have just had wild lesbian sex with her in the dressing room. I kinda put this all down to being stripper shit, but later I heard that she did a two girl stage show with the new dancer, got a little too excited, and bit her on the ass, which got her bounced from the club for a while, so who knows?
as for relating to society, i think the percentage of bi girls is greater regarding dancers as opposed to society.
I was told by one dancer that she is bi. She was young and pretty and she liked watching other hot dancers in the dance room when we went back there. She was pointing other dancers out to me.
I have been told by a few dancers that they are lesbian and will dance for guys. If the guy looks good to them they'll ask him for dances too. I heard most guys they are not interested in.
There are some dancers that seem to do lesbian sort of things even though I don't think they are. They are just being friendly to other dancers and/or putting on a show for the guys watching.
I've also heard about several mean tricks dancers have done to other dancers away from the main club back in the dancers dressing rooms. The dancer telling me this asked me not to tell anyone but she listed several things that happened. If the customers in the club knew half of it, they probably would not be interested in visiting such a group of dancers. As the story went, I did not know if those mean tricks were performed by past dancers, current dancers in the club, or whom. Dancers steal from other dancers, mess up other lockers, and do mean things. I heard about one pretty dancer had other dancers stuff her locker with fish because they were upset at her making most of the money. She probably quit afterwards. If you heard stories like these, you would probably think most dancers are more cut throat and full of venom towards other dancers rather than thinking a lot of them are bi or lesbian. Dancers always like to have a friend or group of friends among dancers since it can be a cut throat business.
Do you know where I can get a copy of the oriental prostitutes study? I have a friend that might be interested in reading it.
Guys like the girl-girl thing because it reinforces our notion that these women are highly sexual and uninhibited. But our fantasies typically include asserting a heterosexual agenda.
-Chris Rock
http://www.stripclubhound.blogspot.com
I think I need some of that grant money for further research.
I've met several admitted bi-curious dancers. I've met several bi-sexual dancers. A lot of the bi-sexuals like hit on the bi-curious. It's a fresh meat type of thing I suppose. One bi-sexual dancer I know is basically straight, even married, but craves pussy all the time and openly lusts after certain dancers and waitresses. But only on a few occassions has she admitted to "scoring" with someone.
Another dancer I knew, who had a boyfriend, openly talked about her new "girlfrend" on the side. This dancer was sexy but also very assertive, so she would naturallly be the dominant one in any relationship.
From what I've observed, the number of bi-sexusl dancers in the industry is only a little higher than the proportion in society, on average. I say it that way because it varies from club to club. Some clubs are magnets for bi-sexual dancers and tend to have a lot of them while other clubs don't have any and the dancers seem to frown on any girls who deviate from the norm.
A former favorite club had about 25% bi-sexual dancers and a lot of bi-curiosity. Having dated a bi-sexual dancer for a while, I found it to be a turn-on in some respects.
The true lesbian dancers I've encountered seem to resent men and if you get to know them a little this comes to the surface. I like to avoid them if I can ID them.
According to the Kinsey surveys of the 1940s & the Hunt survey of the 1970s, less than 1% of women were exclusively homosexual, and nearly 15% of women were bisexual.
According to National Center for Health Statistics, 14% of American women aged 18-29 have had a lesbian experience. A 2002 survey by the U.S. National Center for Health Statistics found that 2.8% of women aged 18–44 considered themselves bisexual, 1.3% considered themselves homosexual, and 3.8% considered themselves as "something else"...whatever that means.
The Janus Report on Sexual Behavior in 1993 showed that 3% of women considered themselves bisexual and 2% of women considered themselves homosexual.
In 2002, findings of the CDC Sex Study for Lesbians & Bisexual Women showed that 4% of females had a sexual experience with another female in the past 12 months, and 11% of women had a same-sex sexual experience in their lifetime. Only 4.1% of women reported oral sex with another woman in a 1992 study though. The 2002 study also showed that 3% of women had sex with both males & females in the last 12 months, and that among women who have had sexual relations with another woman, nearly 65% considered themselves heterosexual. Also, 3.4% of women said that they were attracted to only or mostly females or equally attracted to males & females. However, these studies didn't include those 45 years of age or over or those in prison, jails or other institutions.